TRAVEL PLANNED FOR 2018- Chicago, NYC, Nashville, NOLA Apply to serve Me now or you may miss Me.

Tuesday, October 30, 2018

Phoenix Travel confirmed!

Visiting Phoenix AZ December 4-10

Apply to be of service at devlynndesade.com if you fill one or Many of the following Criteria:

  • Interested in real service, slavery, or Female Supremacy
  • Heavy masochistic Tendencies or wishes
  • Heavy bondage addict
  • Utmost respect for High Femmes and Classic Leather Domination
  • Needing Stricter Training from a Severe Femme Domme instead of fantasy provider
  • Needing more mental Training in slavery as opposed to simple sensual explorations
If you have health problems that may limit your service to Me, this is not a dealbreaker and you must detail honestly in your application.  Looking forward to seeing what Phoenix has to offer!




Tuesday, October 16, 2018

On the Importance of Protocols

Protocols are not only found in BDSM. 
Regarding IT related Protocols:

Protocols are needed for predetermined understandings for communications. Though it helps the harmony and smooth functioning of a system, such.

This is an interesting way of wording that still applies to the functioning of any other system, be it BDSM, Military service, or other strictly arranged systems.

Protocol has several different meanings, all connected to the idea of guidelines or procedures to follow. It is used mostly in formal or academic language.The most common meaning of protocol is “a system of rules that explain the correct conduct and procedures to be followed in formal situations,” as in these example sentences:

The soldier's actions constituted a breach of military protocol.
They did not follow the proper diplomatic protocols.
What is the proper protocol for rejecting a job offer?
Protocol can also mean “a plan for a scientific experiment or for medical treatment,” as in:

an experimental protocol
a simplified treatment protocol

In the BDSM world protocol is often used to explain how we treat one another.  In a BDSM relationship, it is during the forming of the relationship that the submissive will be guided and trained into the proper protocol for that relationship.  The protocols he learns in one relationship may not transfer to another relationship, however, his previous training in protocols at all is always a good sign. This can signal to the Domina that he has experience, he takes note of what women want, he takes pleasure in pleasing you, he is easy or at least viable to be trained. It is not faux pas to offer previous protocols to a new Domina, on the contrary it can be a very flirty gesture like a well trained dog doing a very particular trick. If you don't think Ladies were getting excited watching My well trained slaves serve Me champagne from a silver tray to My EXACT specifications, with grace and practice, you would be sadly mistaken.  

It is easy for you who are sucked into Femdom by porn and other misrepresentations built on Male pleasure instead of Female pleasure can get confused.  

Dominas have their own protocols, a Pro Domina will have many listed clearly on Her site, and booking protocols are very important.

Tuesday, September 18, 2018

***REAL 2018 UPDATE***

Hello, It has been a hot summer and I am looking forward to fall! NO VISITING MISTRESS IS PLANNED FOR THIS MONTH. We have a lovely new leather sleepsack with deprivation hood in the dungeon along with a host of other various new toys, paddles, CBT devices.  I am accepting some sessions on Mondays, Fridays, and Saturdays in My Cincinnati dungeon.  Those of you hoping to see Me on My visit to Indy this month should make sure your deposit and application are already in.
Those submissives who have burned a bridge with Me should have a look at My amazon wishlist and contribute to My dungeon to make it up to Me.  Or perhaps a nice Westward bound gift card would help Me see some qualities of submission in you and entice Me to invite you for a session to play.  Make sure you are even eligible by emailing Me first, there are a small group of you I simply won't be seeing anymore.
Particularly enjoying My heavy bondage, single tails, Venus 2000 and some heavy foot fetish tease and denial training this month. Perhaps you deserve a little vacation in My world!

Monday, September 10, 2018

No travelling Mistress is planned for this month, just a glitch in the blog sending out old posts.


Monday, August 20, 2018

This Week in Cincinnati

I am accepting submissives this week who would like to try out our new fully encased leather bodybag and hood.  Afternoon and early evening sessions are available, if you are open to being abandoned while bound in the bodybag for a few hours, or overnight, email Me with your request at devlynndesade@protonmail.com or if you are a submissive who has been loyal you may text a request for an afternoon or evening to 513-773-9202, within the hours of 10am- 10pm ONLY.

If you have flaked on Me lately, perhaps you should send a gift for the dungeon. An amazon gift card or something from this list would do wonders to help your status with Me.  I hate to exile slaves from My dungeon when they can still be useful, but of course it can be necessary.

Thursday, August 2, 2018

Bondage Ball Photos and New Vac Bed

This year for the Cincinnati Bondage Ball I designed and built an entirely new latex body bag system.  I was inspired by My recent trip to the Met in NYC and their amazing collection of Egyptian artifacts.  The latex for the bag and hood was gold and I created My own latex overlays.  Building the pattern for this creation was no joke but luckily it wasn't impossible, though at times it did seem so! 

I will keep the little tricks of this latex vac bed to Myself but it allows the sub to stand up, for his torments or teasing, and enjoy My Ancient Egypt fetish. We tried it with several body types and I made it large enough for a variety of people.  What fun is a toy if only one person can use it?  Being in the bag is an exhilarating experience, if you want to try it you can book an appointment at devlynndesade.com  There is not another like this one in the world, which is why I made it!

If you appreciate what I do for this city make sure you are contributing to My dungeon in some way so it can continue to exist.