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Thursday, July 19, 2018

If you are trying to book a session...

If you are trying to book a session within the next two weeks, this is hectic time for your Mistress! I am busy running the upcoming Cincinnati Bondage Ball, hosting Guests from out of town, and at the same time more time wasters have come out of the woodwork.
I guess they are excited by the awesome photos I have been posting, but the truth is these photos are here to entice the Ladies to come out to My Bondage ball and have fun with us.  Yes believe it or not My "look" never was about you or what you wanted to see, though men like to project all their desires on women,  LET ME REITERATE, I am on this earth to live out My desires.  I am sure if you woke up looking like this you may want to take a few pictures too.  Especially if you spent years in the gym maintaining it. 
If you feel you have been skipped over, send another email and make clear requests, make sure your deposit is in, make sure your vetting or online references are in! I am having trouble this month sifting the wheat from the chaff. 
And if you are the chaff, please go bother someone else. For instance you could talk to one of the other useless men on the internet who is impersonating Me with My photos, then it would be perfect, you both can just sit on the internet together!

Sunday, July 15, 2018

Goddess Sadie Visits Cincinnati July 24-29

If you would like to book a session directly go to Her site for booking protocols and further information.  Goddess Sadie is seriously fun if you like bondage, corporal, slave training and female supremacy, foot worship, or sissy training.  If you would like to book a double session or serve with running errands for the Goddess, this may also be possible this visit, but as We will be very busy working on the Cincinnati Bondage Ball, you should APPLY ASAP

To see what This Dynamic Dominant Duo are like in person, check out My for videos of Us Harassing My poor slave!  

Friday, July 6, 2018

A Unique and Decadent Opportunity

Want to serve in a More Realistic way?  Love the idea of serving two Goddesses or more?
Dreaming of an evening or afternoon feminized and serving champagne to several Ladies?

Email Me directly for a chance to serve. Here are Our Stipulations:

  • Private discreet location at Mistress DeSade's Dungeon near downtown Cincy
  • Must be able to serve 2-4 Ladies (hooded if needed)
  • Previously trained for service by Mistress DeSade, Mistress Mara Mayhem, OR Mistress Sadie
  • Must be available to serve either 1-4pm or 6-9pm one or several days between July 23-30
  • Deadline for applications and Deposits is July 13th -
Limits and Discretion will be respected.  Possible uses We May have for you:
  • Corporal Discipline
  • Latex Encasement and Worship
  • Heavy Leather Bondage Overnight
  • Feminisation and Sissy Maid Training/ Slut training
  • Showers and Toilet Training
  • Female Supremacy Training
  • Filming 

Tuesday, July 3, 2018

Cincinnati Bondage Ball

Hard at Work and Play this month building our latex costumes and getting our fetish shows all planned out.  Those of you attending should buy your tickets now at We will have a designated area just for those into Femdom... aptly called "The Isle of Femdom"
Slaves who want to serve at the Isle of Femdom are welcome to email Me directly for instructions on what to wear, what to bring, and how to approach Ladies.

If you are unable to attend but still wish to contribute, Here are some ways:

  • Go to My wishlist and buy things marked bondage ball by July 15th (so it will arrive on time)
  • Email with your request to serve by bringing Starbucks or Panera for the Ladies practicing (Sunday afternoons)
  • Sponsor a visiting Mistress's travel to the event with gift cards or place a deposit for a double session- Goddess Sadie 

Monday, June 11, 2018

Boot Worship

It is lovely to wear something that can so easily lead to the control and manipulation of a man.
I love every pair of shoes and boots in My collection.
I have recently bought a glass case for the dungeon,  huge shiny black and lit from inside, to keep My very favorite heels from getting dusty in between cleanings from My slaves.
All My most precious gorgeous shoes are lined up in there, from 8 inch high monster heels to vintage DeLiso Debs 3 inch kitten heels.
My boots are so tall they must be hung up. That's how we do it, if any of you were wondering. Little hangers with little clips, the boots hang neatly all together with their pair.
I cannot have a favorite pair of boots or a favorite pair of heels. I have some more comfortable than others. I definitely fall in love with certain pairs when I am wearing them. Look at these handmade leather boots from England, complete with laces all the way up to My thighs, and a sharp pointed steel heel shining right there at the bottom. Wicked!
It is one of My favorite things to go shoe or boot shopping. I will always take a slave so there is someone to carry all the boxes and put them on My feet, and find My size out of all the styles I like.  I wear a size 6 1/2 in most styles, a 7 in the highest (7inch or higher) styles.

How long will you end up staring at the way the light plays on these beauties?
Did you only just realize the power My boots have over you? You read a little then your eyes get drawn right back up there. Something about the perfect shape, the luscious shine of that slick patent leather is making you salivate.

Thursday, May 31, 2018

Myths about Femdom

All Femdoms want to bang you in the butt-

Of course some do, but every Femdomme has her own ideas about how to enjoy your body.  She might enjoy needles. Some enjoy simple tie and teasing.  Don't judge a book by the cover.

Femdom means doing whatever the fuck I want-

No, what you are describing is narcissistic personality disorder with a touch of abusive behavior.  Femdom is like any relationship, based on two people freely choosing to engage.  A happy slave is a kept slave, and unhealthy and abusive behavior is actually unhealthy for both parties involved.  If you are trying to "do femdom" but you are just doing this, you are headed for a crash and terrible awakening.  Females lead and males follow, "Femdom" is not a get out of jail free card.
REAL BLACKMAIL is not okay.  Physical violence without consent is not okay. 

She shows her tits, she's not a femdom- 

You have no idea how hard any woman worked to get in the body she has. I myself work very hard and feel I have the right to show what I like,  as I will only exist in this form once and I won't hide it away for your false morality or obsolete christian values.  We mostly are a modest bunch but you don't get to police us with silliness.  

If I act bad, she will beat me good-

If you act bad, I will never meet you, never greet you, and never beat you.  Poor thing.

Femdom is emasculating- 

Femdom is a natural expression of a thousand year old inherently male biological response.  Sir Lancelot- what could be emasculating about serving his Queen?  Only an actually cowardly man, insecure in his own feelings, cannot embrace this.

Pro- dommes are just in it for the money-

We maintain a safe space, we host events, we buy expensive top of the line equipment for you to experience.  This is where the money goes.  Not on a fur lined bed for us to roll around in, unfortunately.  Now imagine you are a slave you pays for a monthly session... you are helping to pay rent, bills, and basics to simply keep the dungeon running.  I can tell you care and want the dungeon to keep existing.  Now imagine you are submissive who only needs a session once or twice a year... your session helps keep the dungeon running, but because you aren't dependable it is hard to tell where any allegiance or loyalty is... I find it strange when people pop in randomly but have the nerve to talk about My dungeon or serving Me in a real capacity when there is no loyalty. A good way to contribute monthly in a nominal way anyone can afford is by joining My  - In this way you can show you want the dungeon to be there when you do need it even if you can't afford monthly sessions.