Tuesday, December 28, 2010

Latex Fetish - A Primer

Latex seems to be very misunderstood, and underestimated.
Some people say latex is uncomfortable. At one time I would have agreed with them.
Now I would say latex is not only comfortable but extremely pleasurable to wear.
YES, there are some things that give pleasure to the wearer. I have a secret lust for many of these objects of desire...girdles, stockings, bullet bras, waist training corsets to name a few.  Being a dominant woman who believes My pleasure is WORTH something, I actually spend a great deal of money on these types of things. My preferred lounging around outfit is a girdle and fully form stockings... It just makes you feel good in your body.
But I digress...
A very kind submissive gave Me the gift of a certificate from twist my rubber arm .  I do own some rubber already, but took this chance to order full length gloves, skirts, long line bra, as well as a few rubber toys and gags.
This company is great. They are in Canada, the quality is great, they ship fast, and the prices are phenomenal. They only have basic latex, they are no westward bound, but really isn't all latex divine?  (EXCEPT the latex from hustler. DO NOT buy it, it is terrible.  I have no idea what it is but it is the worst latex I have ever bought)

The minute I slipped on My gloves I was hooked. The gloves are really the best, because they are the tightest most full coverage item I have bought so far.  With the lube, you can even see My tattoos through the latex.
My fetish is not all about looks though, and it is very hard to describe.  Being covered in slippery rubber, you are all at once, infinitely touchable and untouchable.  The slide of latex across latex is out of this world.  The way it immediately forms to your body like a sea creature is unlike anything else.
Anyway, learning, and experimenting with latex, I have learned some things I will share here, and I wish someone would have told Me years ago.
  • Latex and pvc are two different things. If you know one, you don't know the other. Don't discount an experience with latex because you have experience with PVC. PVC looks great but that's it.
  • It is good to start with something small... gloves or stockings are much easier to fool with than a catsuit and less sad if they break.  I have broken latex items :(  (Once on stage and thank the goddess that I had chosen to wear a thong that night instead of going commando.)  If I was a man I would get stockings, or maybe underwear with a penis sheath.
  • Go Slow, enjoy yourself. Shaving before would help in My opinion, boys.  
  • Buy quality: yes you are stuck with online sources if you live around here.  twist my rubber arm is the best I've dealt with and I have done the latex store (overpriced items from other suppliers) and skin two (great stuff and prices, but long wait time)
  • Use a lot of lube.  Early on I read to use powder. THAT IS BS. WHO THE FUCK USES POWDER?  I used powder for years like an idiot, not enjoying the latex at all, and having to clean it up all the time.  Now its lube, inside and out.  Feels better, works better, the lube reacts with the latex to make it more stretchy and see through.  I use EROS lube, and it is clearly the best.  However, I have used Wet platinum (black bottle) with almost as good results.  Lube your skin, and the latex, then slide it on!  Then more lube outside! Shiny! slippery! FUN!  (hold on a sec while I order more lube....)  STAY AWAY from regular Wet lube (blue bottle), KY etc.  They get sticky and gross, not fun at all.
  • Devoted crossdressers will have a handle on how to put it on better.  The stretching and pulling it over yourself fitting it to your skin is a lot like what you have to do to get pantyhose to fit correctly. Watch your nails, and get comfortable with stretching it to fit.
Hope this helps. I am now so addicted I am thinking about turning My leather dungeon into a Rubber dungeon, with black rubber flooring, and black and red rubber everywhere...like this one here, at Institut Shaka in Germany.
Here is another rubberist site I enjoy:  Rubber Eva.  Showing what fun can be had with all the latex in the world at your disposal!

Monday, December 27, 2010


Meet ME and the rest of the dominant women in the Cincinnati area.  Watch our fabulous fetish show!
Play with all the other kinksters!
Come dressed to impress!

Sunday, December 26, 2010

Show at the Dock!

This show was fabulous and so much fun! Here are some pics for those of you who missed it, we are really getting people in a playful mood these days!

Wednesday, December 22, 2010

The bottom, sub, and slave

The bottom says, Please do this to me.

The submissive says, What do you want to do?

The slave says nothing and waits, trusting, for Mistress's command.

Most people switch from one to the other freely, even within one scene.
All are useful in their own ways.

Saturday, December 18, 2010

Burlesque and Bondage at Vex

 Arielle getting her licks in!

Our favorite of the evening, K, a possible new addition to the troupe. She said she could stay up there all night.
We punished played with maybe 40 people!!!! That is a line behind Me!

Our newest addition to the troupe, the lovely and vivacious Nikki!

Enjoying My red catsuit!!! 

Wednesday, December 15, 2010


My birthday is Sunday!
If you have a gift for Me but will not be having a session with Me before Sunday, email Me.  Perhaps I will find some time for you to show Me your gratitude THAT I EXIST.  I'm sure everyone agrees that when I was formed on this earth, they broke the mold!  No matter how many fish in the sea, it would be oh so empty without ME!
I am so happy!  Friday evening the Sisters of the Sacred Flesh will be at Vex in Dayton Ohio to hand out our punishments and rewards to all the naughty boys and girls.  A few of the ladies will be performing their xxxmas burlesque numbers as well. Fabulous! 
To those of you who cannot travel, we will be doing our thing in Cincinnati as well, at the dock, on thursday the 23rd.  These two shows will be completely different so don't worry if you want to go to both.  The Dock in Cincinnati is home to the Sisters of the Sacred Flesh, and we are going to give our fans something they won't forget. 
AND OF COURSE last and BEST, our NEW YEARS EVE party will be one for the ages! A no holds barred extravaganza... 3 floors, a fully equipped dungeon complete with an electric suspension hoist, and all the Cincinnati Prestige Players... no rules but safe sane and consensual.  It's called KINK IN THE NEW YEAR.  More info can be found HERE
If you want a public flogging or humiliation from one of the Sisters, be sure to ASK NICELY.

Monday, December 13, 2010

Maid Mary Ann

Maid Mary Ann in the dungeon  ladies parlour.
This picture was taken on a lovely day that maid Mary Ann came for a visit to the dungeon.
Doesn't she look nice with all her PVC and her new panties?
Mary Ann is always asked to clean the dungeon a bit when she arrives.  Although I am not a housewife I do have very specific instructions as to how I like everything done. 
On this day Mary Ann brought a new lavender colored vacuum for the dungeon.  I will never touch this vacuum so I have no idea how it works, but it is very pretty and seems to clean quite well.  Mary Ann set it up and cleaned the floors, then neatly arranged all My high heels.  She is still learning to walk herself around with grace in the 5- inch heels I make her wear.  Boots are good for the beginner in heel walking, as they offer more support for the ankle.  Platforms also offer more stability for the pad of the foot... So these are basically Mary Ann's training heels.  When she is doing well on them we will be moving up to platform strappy heels, then to a more severe spike heel.  It is not the pain we worry about but Mary Ann's grace and ability to not fall over on the floor!
Mary Ann cleaning in the hall.

Mary Ann has had extensive training though she is still not that far along... I am still very satisfied.
Here is a list of the skills she now can offer:
  • foot massage service
  • pedicure service
  • housecleaning
  • Sissy Maid service
  • Serving food and beverages
  • Slave positions of service
  • Human footstool service
In all these things she has been taught with the greatest attention to detail and can be of great use to Me and My lady friends.
We are still working on many other skills in which she needs improvement to make her exactly what we want!  she seems very happy with her new place and her newfound abilities to be such a pleasure. 
Doesn't she look so happy?

Sunday, December 12, 2010

The Joys of Pony Play- for the Curious

 "My name is Merrylegs: I am very handsome, I carry the young ladies on my back, and sometimes I take our mistress out in the low chair... (Black Beauty, Ch. 5, Anna Sewell 1877)."

"One Lady jumped aboard, and immediately whacked my bum hard with her crop, to the cry of 'faster!' and continued doing so for a complete circuit. I, of course, ran, and did not notice the cold and the fog (it was November). It was good fun..."--Silver Sparks, Ponyboy Sparky

I am very interested in Pony Play.  I am well aware, however, that not many people understand it.
So here is My view... only My view, not the view of every person who enjoys this sort of play.  Kink is a realm of mind and body, and just as no two minds and bodies are the same I think there are no two people with the exact same kink.
Of course that is what makes the

world of kinky people so wonderful and endlessly fascinating.  I hope I can help some of you who don't understand this play get an idea of why it is we do what we do.

Ponyplay for Me consists of training and play. Pony training can be strenuous as there is a lot for the pony to learn, the stance, trotting, canter, and all the proper behaviours must be taught to the pony's BODY as well as their mind.  In this way they can learn to act and react in a pleasing way for both the pony and master.  I have heard that some ponies are trained not by their owners but outsiders for this reason- the amount of care, patience and work involved.  I of course enjoy training, protocol, challenges... so I would never do this. I also am a control freak (aren't you glad!?) and many times the way I wish for a pony to be trained is very specific to My desires and not just the prescribed trainings.

Ponies many times have the most loveliest outfits and bondage devices.  This is surely one of the many things that drew Me at first to ponyplay.  I have a specific desire at all times that My submissives be like prized possessions to Me.  I want them to be lovely, pleasing at all times in every way including visually. Both the training and the outfits seem to speak to My desire for the highest standard at all times. Those who have served Me in person know this already- I usually have goals for the submissive and try to reach them, I can be very pleased when someone reaches the goals I have set for them.

Ponies are not allowed to talk.  They must learn to communicate with their bodies. This means the pony and the owner must learn this language, for the pony's safety.  This can be such a beautiful thing.  I also think for many people it is difficult for them to shut their mouths... what they don't realize is that the silence of their mind, that silence being filled only by the dominant, and their own bodies' experience, can be such a beautiful, powerful, healing experience.  Because of the training placed on the pony, their costuming, their transformation into an animal, for the dominant's use, no longer human, I think it is very easy for them to be in and stay in a pleasurably strong submissive headspace.  I read once of a woman who simply would put on a hat with a ponytail and then would feel she was transformed into a pony and was no longer human.  I also know that when I play with one of My ponies, he does not like to take his bridle and bit off for as long as he possibly can... it is a peaceful, enjoyable place for him and he doesn't want to leave it.

Of course these types of things are applicable to many kinds of play... which is why I love protocol and training so much.  One would hope for a submissive, just a simple act like the placing of the collar can dictate a complete internal shift for them. For every person the push to that space is different.

Phyllis Riding Aristotle, a 1620 woodcut by Hans Bedlung Grien

Friday, December 10, 2010

New Cage!!!

I am very happy with this slave who got Me My most favorite new toy- an antique human size birdcage.  
It is gorgeous and I am obsessed.  Can you tell how happy we are to make use of it?

Thursday, December 2, 2010

The Female Led Relationship

I had the great fortune of stumbling across this blog today.  I am very happy when people put into words the things I am thinking about all the time.
Why do more women not revel in their superiority?
It can be very disheartening, especially to someone like Me, who knows so many men who would directly benefit from a strong handed woman secure in herself enough to rule them. 
All of My studies have affirmed the feminine power. I know many people do not agree with Me on this point, but unlike religious fanatic, it is not faith in the power, but facts that support My belief.
Anyway, the concept of the Female Led Relationship is something that even the vanilla folk can get behind, and it no doubt develops from time to time a bit of kinky flavor. 

I love protocol.
And enslavement, of the male, in all its forms.