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Sunday, December 30, 2012

...And a Happy New Year!

Changes are underway: A new dungeon.  Though the space here is huge and discreet, a terrible landlord's habit of never making repairs means it is time for Me and My whips and chains to move to bigger and better things. Well, perhaps not bigger, those of you who've seen the space know it couldn't get much bigger.  But better ah yes!
I am only hoping I will be able to squish all My toys somehow into a smaller space.  If I let ANYTHING go it will be a certain amount of sissy stuff, those sissies will have to make do with a much smaller wardrobe and shoe collection.  Will I be getting rid of any of My sadistic and sensation toys?  No, just bought a new very expensive piece this week!
As A Domina the year has been well, those who have known Me a while may have noticed some changes in Me.  I will never budge on My strict nature, dominance, control, and love of all things sadistic. The older I get though the more comfortable I become with My sensual side.  I am more touchy feely now, I love to play My nails over a slaves back, or the red sore places I've tortured.  I enjoy teasing more now and other play. I allow people to simply meet Me or come for interviews to allay their crippling terror of Me.  I've been playing with a lot of couples in a teaching role, which feeds Me so much- I love to watch the energy transfer, I am always shocked by women who are afraid to inflict pain on a man, and I love sharing My toys.  I have been putting up with My girlfriend's annoying kitten about 60% of the time. So, in sum, change is good.



I wish you all a new year of growth, new fabulous experiences, connection, vulnerability, and exquisite kink.

Friday, December 28, 2012

How to Get More out of serving your Mistress

This is a post about Mindfulness, Hypnosis/ Trance, etc.  Mindfulness, meditation, Hypnosis and trance is very good for enriching an already divine experience.
I've written something of a guide, to help explain how to do things mindfully when serving.  It helps to bring you back to the here and now, which is truly a divine experience you don't want to waste. It happens a lot by  itself in bdsm play, but it can be enriched by focus as well.  MY example is one of boot lacing/ worship, but could be applied to any sort of play, just get creative.

Today the Mistress is in the mood to wear Her favorite boots.  you know where you should be.  After getting Her boots you kneel on the soft rug at Her feet. you are not allowed to look at Her, which is probably for the best as you are easily distracted.  Instead you try to slow your breath. you always get excited in Her presence, you want to chatter or ask something to feel more comfortable. Instead you will breathe deeply, and you cast your eyes toward the carpet, but are looking at nothing in particular, looking inward.  you breathe in slowly and deeply, revelling in the feeling of Her energy, and Her power over you.  It always makes you feel a little buzzed, excited and nervous. you breathe, silently, feeling that feeling in your whole body.  you can smell Her perfume, the smell of leather, incense, your own sweat.  you breathe in these smells and they comfort you. you have been here before, and it always fills you with joy to please your Mistress.  
WHEN SHE ORDERS YOU you pick up one of the boots and place Her soft, beautiful foot inside.  The pure white soft skin of her tender feet are so erotic to the touch.  The tiny red laquered toenails are so sexy and perfectly shaped. The scent of Her feet, The slight wiggle of Her toes, The near weightlessness of Her foot, all of these things tend to give you a rush.  Try to notice every detail of Her feet. you feel the power of you being at Her feet, the powerful sexual rush of being able to SERVE Her, it is intoxicating. your mind may wander to a fear or desire for later, let that thought be LATER. This is what you are doing NOW. Don't be mad at yourself for wandering in your mind, just come back to NOW and how good it feels.  Every inch of Her beautiful legs will soon be embraced by the boot in your hands.  you may have an erection now. Don't worry about that either.  Feel yourself becoming erect, feel your naked skin starting to become more sensitive. Her presence, your servitude, the leather, Her skin, it is all so luxurious. 
Feel the leather as you wrap it around Her leg. Listen to the sound of it bending. Watch the way it caresses Her skin.  If the leather goes high enough and you are allowed you may breathe in Her perfect scent. A beautiful, soft, perfect leather boot is now around Her beautiful, soft, perfectly shaped legs.  Take a moment to look at this. How quickly and easy something so perfect and sexy became unnervingly erotic.  you may be dripping with excitement.  Feel how good that feels. Breathe deeply to make sure you are not going to rush anything. you want to savor this moment.
Breathing deeply and calmly, feeling warm and tingly all over, you begin to lace up the boot. Sometimes you start to rush or mess up, maybe because of your pesky erection-Never MIND, you breathe deeply and focus on lacing the boots perfectly.  As you go you slightly pull the laces and make the boot TIGHT around Her, feeling that tightness. She always loves the feeling of tight leather around Her body, this makes you even more excited.  The leather is lustrous and tight around Her soft, unbelievable feminine legs. Watch how much sexier they get as you lace them tighter and go up the leg. When you finally reach the top you look down to make sure there have been no mistakes. you want to do a good job so She will feel as good as you do and want you to do this again. It always feels so good to be at Her feet as you are now. It feels so good to touch Her legs, as you are now. you tie the bow and now it is on to the next boot....

Hopefully you get the picture here. 
Now imagine using this same technique when She is putting you in bondage.  Imagine using this same technique when She has you up on the cross blindfolded, and you don't know what is happening next.  Use all your senses to really be there for the experience.






Monday, December 24, 2012

It's Xmas... Give 'em what they want.

A very sincere thank you to all of you who made My birthday and the subsequent holidays just wonderful.  Absolutely wonderful.
Enjoy this gift from Me.


Created with Admarket's flickrSLiDR.

Sunday, December 23, 2012

XMAS coming!


If you have yet to buy Me a xmas present, feel free to subsidize My severe Nylon addiction by buying either a gift card or something from My wishlist:  HERE.



Thursday, December 20, 2012

Some lovely art and stories!


"In the courtly love tradition of the Middle Ages, a troubadour/knight would find a lady, almost always a married one, and would serve as Her vassal.  He would go through terrible trials on her behalf, undertake dangerous pilgrimages in Her name, suffer awful tortures to prove his love. (This could include bodily mutilation, such as tearing off of the fingernails, the cutting of an ear, etc) He would also write poems and beautiful songs to Her, for no troubadour could succeed without some kind of aesthetic or spiritual quality to impress his lady.  


“I myself have seen this woman draw the stars from the sky; she diverts the course of a fast-flowing river with her incantations; her voice makes the earth gape, it lures the spirits from the tombs, send the bones tumbling from the dying pyre. At her behest, the sad clouds scatter; at her behest, snow falls from a summer's sky.”
― Catullus













Sunday, December 9, 2012

Birthday Spankings!

First I got a lovely new cane fashioned to My specifications... A modification of the old blackthorn.

The Blackthorn bush is found throughout Ireland and the British Isles. It has been prized for centuries as a material for premium walking sticks. The original Blackthorn sticks were 2 to 4 foot long Irish shillelaghs (the national weapon of rural Ireland). In expert hands the shillelagh was so fearsome that during the final occupation of Ireland, the English outlawed it. To get around the law, the Irish turned the shillelagh into a 3-foot walking stick. The English didn't want to appear unreasonable by outlawing walking sticks too, so the Irish kept their modified shillelaghs and the world gained a beautiful and functional walking stick known simply as the Blackthorn.

It is absolutely beautiful and severe.  I love antique implements but sometimes of course they can't be used as harshly as I would like and withstand it.

Then the slave also made a small flogger from the material used in weed whackers.  I think he would like Me to call it the Devil's Squid flogger.  That thing is a beast!!!  Of course, however, it is MY birthday month so I also wanted to play with My single tail whips!!

BEFORE BIRTHDAY SPANKINGS!

AFTER BIRTHDAY SPANKINGS!!!



Tuesday, December 4, 2012

My Birthday Gift to you!

AMNESTY, and general sweetness.

Those of you who wish to take advantage of My fabulous mood, in this most fabulous time of the year, MUST be able to follow impeccably My directions.


1. You must have seen Me for sessions sometime in the past TWO years. It may have been a long time... so much the better as it will brighten My day.

2. You may text My cellphone between the hours of 10am and 2pm.  I MAY NOT ANSWER. I AM VERY BUSY.  The number is : 859 307 6017.

3. You will text something to help Me remember what time we have spent together, My name for you, or how I have abused you in the past ;).  You will then ask if you may be of service to Me THAT DAY.  You will only text if you can be of service THAT DAY.  Spontaneity and service is what this is about.

4. I will tell you if I wish for you to bring Me coffee or tea, with specific instructions. Everything will be clearly outlined to you.  You will take your lunch break that day in service to ME.

5. If you wish to also bring Me a thoughtful birthday gift you should do that!!  No crap please.  Most of you know what I like.  You are also welcome to beg Me if you wish to take Me on a shopping trip for My birthday, obviously I may not want to spend a day with you, but hey, you may have a chance.

Monday, November 12, 2012

MY BIRTHDAY



My Birthday is in one month. Don't forget!

If you wish to give Me My gift in person, order from this list.

Friday, November 9, 2012

Teaching, Travel, and Other Plans!


In beautiful Aspen Colorado, surrounded by the gorgeous mountains, I get so much healthy food and exercise here.  On the unhealthy side, slave got Me the cutest dark chocolate truffles, that look like little mice.  As a vegetarian sadist, so fun to play with My food!
I will be in Chicago on the 15th to teach and play at the Midwest Furfest with My cute furry friends.  If you don't know what furries are yet... check out My last visit for an explanation.  Perhaps this year I will have enough time to sneak all the boys over to the bathhouse.
I will be coming back to Cincinnati on the 19th, just in time to see if slave d has finished fixing up a demented device for the dungeon.  If not, you should all pray for the skin on his bottom.
See you soon!


Monday, November 5, 2012

Dressing for Pleasure

I know the way I dress generally can cause a bit of confusion.  I'm old enough to be used to the reality of "the law of the lowest common denominator".
Much of the time though, I would say, in person, My strong personality tends to clear up any misconceptions.
I was something of a tomboy growing up, following the feminist theory that these lovely outward expressions are symbols of patriarchal control!!!
So why do I dress up so lovely when it gives men so much pleasure?
Don't I hate you all?


First of all, stockings, velvet, silk, fur, fine lingerie, gloves, the perfect pair of heels just FEEL sexy.  It's  for ME!  I am a stocking fetishist and sometimes wear them just to sleep in, just a pair of silky stockings and a spray of chanel make for a very pleasurable and luxurious drift-off.  Sissies out there know what I am talking about.  Going out when I know I am dressed to the nines down to the well chosen pieces no one can see makes Me feel focused, relaxed, and powerful.  All this femme luxury is like meditation to Me.
I don't think anyone else has to share My philosophies.  Some people wouldn't enjoy spending as much time on these little things as I do.  If I didn't enjoy them, I wouldn't do it either.  I don't wear whatever other people think is sexy, I wear what I feel is sexy.  In fact, most clothing that is in style right now, and would make Me "fit in" when going out, and feed into what is supposed to be attractive right now for women, is very distasteful to Me.
Playtime, I can feel very sexy and powerful in a catsuit and corset, I can feel sexy and powerful also in My sports bra and yoga pants and sneakers, if I've just finished a workout.  I feel very sexy in boxing gloves... Lol.  I think Dominas who choose to play completely naked feel sexy and most powerful that way.
Men are easier to string along down a path with something shiny... but if you don't know and feel your own power and control, it will be difficult to lead anyone or know where you want to go.



Wednesday, October 31, 2012

Taking care of your Bottom!

I usually discuss this anyway with anyone I enjoy otk or paddling with, however I thought to post here just so the information is out there. This is a great synopsis of aftercare for Spankos.

The only thing I would add to this:  Take time between harsh spankings (bruised bottom) to allow yourself to heal.  Explore another form of play, softer or rhythmic spanking, flogging or something! If you continue to traumatize the area over and over, you can get "leather bottom" and that's not a good thing.  It's unattractive to the top, for one thing, and it's less fun for you, as you won't enjoy your spankings nearly as much with a pad of calloused skin protecting your tush.  You can enjoy paddling forever if you take care of yourself.

Monday, October 29, 2012

Travel plans!

Your last chance to see me in Cincinnati before I leave for Aspen is THIS WEEK.
If you hope to see Me before I leave you MUST email Me at devlynndesade@gmail.com as I will be very busy.

Wednesday, October 24, 2012

Robert Bishop

Most of the fabulous bondage devices we get to enjoy and play with these days were created by artists and photographers in image only.  I remember the first times I saw these images of fantastical devices, like the shoe gag, or the ashtray gag, or the leather armbinder.

There was a little shop I would go to that had prints and books of the artist Robert Bishop-  I was amazed and enthralled by his work.  For some reason, I thought for sure there was no possible way these elaborate bondage devices existed in real life.  Truly the invention of many of these devices must be credited to these artists who fantasized about them and then showed us their fantasies.





Of course now I am blessed to have piles and piles of terrible, inspired, pieces of these fantasies.  
So some of the works of Robert Bishop.







Sunday, October 21, 2012

The Lockup continues!

Well, it's been a lovely evening! I had a wonderful dinner with a beautiful and talented dominant woman, brought to Me (the food, not the woman) by the new slave D.  Indian food and electroplay- I spent a little time using slave D to teach Her how My electrical prods work.  Too much fun!  A specifically hilarious part was while D was standing there terrified and shaking as She was trying to figure out how to work the thing, then ZZZZAP!  Just lovely!
slave D brought Me a gift!

Here I am with them, the silicone (i.e. sterilizable) Electro cock rings to torture and tease!!! I am beyond excited to play with them.
Oh and as for slave j and his chastity, he complains too much, so I just think tomorrow would be a much better time to remove the thing from the cage.  Instead of seeing him this evening to take him out of the cage, I'm going to the bar with My lady friend and a few other friends,  we'll see if he can stop bitching.  I'll be sure he knows just how much fun I'm having and exactly how much I care about his poor little caged worm.







Sunday, October 14, 2012

A good week for a Lockup!




Slave j will be going into his silicon chastity device this evening at 7pm- give or take a few minutes depending  on how long it will take Me to torture a possible (and likely) erection into remission. This will be the longest slave j has submitted to being in the chastity, the worst so far was just 3 days.  Slave j will be locked up in the device this time for a full seven days, just to give Me a laugh.
his begging during this week is going to cause Me endless amusement. I'll be updating and tweeting randomly  to let you all know how he fares. 
If you don't yet follow My twitter, I'd recommend it, as it tends to get way more photos than My blog these days.





Tuesday, October 2, 2012

BACK!



Back in Cincinnati after catching a terrible bug and kindly being nursed back to health by two caring and well trained slaves. 

Go ahead and barrage with emails now, I'm finally up to answering.

Thursday, September 6, 2012

Travel Plans and Appointments


Well! It's been a very busy month for Me. 
I will be travelling again this week, so those of you who wish to see Me should contact Me about this weekend's plans!

Friday, August 31, 2012

Monday, August 27, 2012

Double Domina Sessions this week


I have a new hardcore bitch of a friend who wants to play with Me this week. If you wish to play with both of us, email Me ASAP, she's a busy gal!

Tuesday, August 7, 2012

A letter I liked


i have come to this decision last night.  i was at the club xxxxxi's last night of all places.  There was a gorgeous Woman there that i thought might have flirted with me, but i wasn't sure.  She was about 5'3" long, curly dark hair, and had an amazing body.  Her legs were toned and athletic.  And She was wearing these red opened toes stillettos.  Needless to say i was attracted to Her and intimidated by Her at the same time.  She was also dancing with some other guy.  i was not jealous.   i was glad she was having a good  time.  All i kept thinking about was what it would be like to serve her when she got home from the club.  i was only worried about Her happiness.  This just made me realize further that i am meant to be a slave.

This is an excerpt from a letter that was sent to me two years ago.

Sunday, August 5, 2012

Lovers of Vintage Lingerie and UPDATES


It's been a lovely week of fun playtimes, some with new submissives and some with My favorite beloved toys.
Some updates:

  • I will be out of town from the 10th to the 25th, so those of you who are aching to see Me soon should book now or when I come back. If you HAVE to get in with Me before I leave, and you've seen Me before you can go ahead and call Me at 859 307 6017.
  • I've got a lot of new electrical toys to play with so those of you who want to get some shock therapy better come on and play!!!
  • I've added a bunch of things to My etsy wishlist- tons of tiny little things that make Me happy, vintage lingerie and heels that can't be found anywhere else, and handmade kinky things - most of which are made by actual BDSM couples.

Thursday, August 2, 2012

WANTS

Whoever gets Me this dress WILL get to worship it, or simply be tortured while I enjoy being in it!
I don't really NEED any more latex, and this will surely look gorgeous on Me.

Doing It My Way!



If you want it your way go to Burger King!

Sunday, July 29, 2012

I hate young people.


Incidentally, I should put an age caveat on My application and refuse to see anyone under 35.  Though I know some of you older men saw Dominas when you were 18-25.  What do all of you think about that?
Anyone can make an intelligent appeal at this point, I am really thinking of making this a rule however.
I would love to hear opinions.

Sunday, July 22, 2012

Mistress Justine and Mistress Devlynn teaching terrible lessons all week!

Mistress Justine will be visiting this week and apparently is missing the calm that comes after delivering a good paddling!
Those of you who wish to meet with both ladies or Mistress Justine Herself for Discipline only are recommended to email this week!  Mistress Justine prefers early evenings.

Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Chastity

Received in the mail recently a lovely new CB, the CB-6000.  I have a few chastity devices, however this is My first CB-6000.

I like this one because it is clear so you can see your penis but not touch it! HA!
So let the new chastity experiments begin.  How long can one certain person endure being locked up, and yet tormented by Me?

One of My favorite evil things to do is to  send sexy picture texts to My caged pet where I'm holding the key!

Friday, July 13, 2012

Kink Consultation for Couples


Over the years, a great deal of people have come to Me just to be able to discuss their fantasies and not be judged. I have been approached by some wonderful couples who wanted to sit and talk to someone who understands their feelings, and actually lives this lifestyle and makes it work.  They have come to me to "work out their kinks".

I am not a therapist, however I would like to say I know more about Kink than any therapist in this area because I spend every day helping people with a need for it.  I will not tell you it is not normal that you want to explore this... because a lot of us have learned when we can actually safely seek out our desires, intentionally, and from a healthy place, it affects everything in our lives. This is a simple human need, and to be able to explore this with someone you also feel emotionally connected to is a blessing.  I love to be able to share My knowledge and experience!
What does seeing Me for couples training entail?  When you arrive we sit and discuss what you are hoping to learn from Me and how you would like to grow.  I help people with everything from :

  • exhibitionism for the shy
  • how to discuss our needs
  • how to get into play
  • how to realize fantasies in real life
  • sex as ritual
  • all the "whys and hows"
  • and of course all the fetishes and toys to play with together!


What is stopping you from having what you want right now?
I book by email. Please include the following: first names (for discretion purposes), some general background on your relationship, what is bringing you to see me and what you hope to explore.  I find email helps people to feel comfortable talking about their kinks and not being judged. It also allows you to think about the answers to these questions in your own space.


Wednesday, July 11, 2012

Can you take the heat?

A afternoon with a fun subject.
After tanning his hide just a bit he was made to wear the stainless steel hook, roped in place so if he moved it would only move deeper.
That wasn't enough fun for Me, I surprised him with a slow painful heat capsacin addition to the plug.  Though not seen in the picture the rest of his body was also tied, so there was no getting away from the torment!

Tuesday, June 26, 2012

Donations and Tributes and Updates


I have received a ton of donations and tributes, make sure to EMAIL me directly and request time at My feet!


Other than that! MAN, this week I noticed there had been a leak in My dungeon, and there on My little table My bowl of My whole collection of nipple clamps was sitting in water and rusting away! So sad to Me as a few were gifts, specifically one pair from chastity slave Randy, were so painful no one could take them but him.  So if anyone wants to buy or donate nipple clamps this month I am in great need- I really like the black ones I've seen lately! The only ones that survived were the Japanese clover clamps, as they were in the autoclave at the time! GRRR!
Speaking of kinky metal devices, this thing looks like super fun.

As for perversion these days, Ms. Justine and I had the most fun game Sunday afternoon! I had been shopping that week and saw a huge bag of clothespins...hmmm.
We tied up a slave, and made a beautiful design over his body with all the clothespins, then We had a lovely game to see who could take the most off! We took turns, I LOST! Lol. But to be fair She used various implements, while I was using My two whips.  Yikes!!! Poor little thing could barely take it and We sure had fun!



Sunday, June 17, 2012

Wicked Bitch

Thank you to a certain someone for this beautiful and terrible new whip- the Wicked Bitch, from MauiKink.

"The thick rubber tail creates deep bruising that both sadists and masochists love. " I love My new super mean toy!

Wednesday, June 13, 2012

Dungeon Tour!

Boot Worship


It's such a long, long way from the soles of My beloved boots to the tops of them. What a beautiful, torturous journey for My bootslave.

Thursday, May 31, 2012

Various Dungeon Additions

Recent Additions to the Academy:

Red leather armbinders with beautiful zippers and straps and buckles! These are so buttery and I love the smell of the leather!

Nova Pro for Sensory Deprivation and Hypnotic Suggestion!

Beautiful Handmade Latigo Leather Swing! Gorgeous, Strong, cradles like a baby, and once again- love the smell of that leather!

Gifts from a kind slave-
New handheld zappers so there's no getting away from  Mistress Justine and I when we have a lesson to teach you!

Having so much fun playing with My new toys!