Friday, November 9, 2012

Teaching, Travel, and Other Plans!

In beautiful Aspen Colorado, surrounded by the gorgeous mountains, I get so much healthy food and exercise here.  On the unhealthy side, slave got Me the cutest dark chocolate truffles, that look like little mice.  As a vegetarian sadist, so fun to play with My food!
I will be in Chicago on the 15th to teach and play at the Midwest Furfest with My cute furry friends.  If you don't know what furries are yet... check out My last visit for an explanation.  Perhaps this year I will have enough time to sneak all the boys over to the bathhouse.
I will be coming back to Cincinnati on the 19th, just in time to see if slave d has finished fixing up a demented device for the dungeon.  If not, you should all pray for the skin on his bottom.
See you soon!

Monday, November 5, 2012

Dressing for Pleasure

I know the way I dress generally can cause a bit of confusion.  I'm old enough to be used to the reality of "the law of the lowest common denominator".
Much of the time though, I would say, in person, My strong personality tends to clear up any misconceptions.
I was something of a tomboy growing up, following the feminist theory that these lovely outward expressions are symbols of patriarchal control!!!
So why do I dress up so lovely when it gives men so much pleasure?
Don't I hate you all?

First of all, stockings, velvet, silk, fur, fine lingerie, gloves, the perfect pair of heels just FEEL sexy.  It's  for ME!  I am a stocking fetishist and sometimes wear them just to sleep in, just a pair of silky stockings and a spray of chanel make for a very pleasurable and luxurious drift-off.  Sissies out there know what I am talking about.  Going out when I know I am dressed to the nines down to the well chosen pieces no one can see makes Me feel focused, relaxed, and powerful.  All this femme luxury is like meditation to Me.
I don't think anyone else has to share My philosophies.  Some people wouldn't enjoy spending as much time on these little things as I do.  If I didn't enjoy them, I wouldn't do it either.  I don't wear whatever other people think is sexy, I wear what I feel is sexy.  In fact, most clothing that is in style right now, and would make Me "fit in" when going out, and feed into what is supposed to be attractive right now for women, is very distasteful to Me.
Playtime, I can feel very sexy and powerful in a catsuit and corset, I can feel sexy and powerful also in My sports bra and yoga pants and sneakers, if I've just finished a workout.  I feel very sexy in boxing gloves... Lol.  I think Dominas who choose to play completely naked feel sexy and most powerful that way.
Men are easier to string along down a path with something shiny... but if you don't know and feel your own power and control, it will be difficult to lead anyone or know where you want to go.