Sunday, December 30, 2012

...And a Happy New Year!

Changes are underway: A new dungeon.  Though the space here is huge and discreet, a terrible landlord's habit of never making repairs means it is time for Me and My whips and chains to move to bigger and better things. Well, perhaps not bigger, those of you who've seen the space know it couldn't get much bigger.  But better ah yes!
I am only hoping I will be able to squish all My toys somehow into a smaller space.  If I let ANYTHING go it will be a certain amount of sissy stuff, those sissies will have to make do with a much smaller wardrobe and shoe collection.  Will I be getting rid of any of My sadistic and sensation toys?  No, just bought a new very expensive piece this week!
As A Domina the year has been well, those who have known Me a while may have noticed some changes in Me.  I will never budge on My strict nature, dominance, control, and love of all things sadistic. The older I get though the more comfortable I become with My sensual side.  I am more touchy feely now, I love to play My nails over a slaves back, or the red sore places I've tortured.  I enjoy teasing more now and other play. I allow people to simply meet Me or come for interviews to allay their crippling terror of Me.  I've been playing with a lot of couples in a teaching role, which feeds Me so much- I love to watch the energy transfer, I am always shocked by women who are afraid to inflict pain on a man, and I love sharing My toys.  I have been putting up with My girlfriend's annoying kitten about 60% of the time. So, in sum, change is good.

I wish you all a new year of growth, new fabulous experiences, connection, vulnerability, and exquisite kink.

Friday, December 28, 2012

How to Get More out of serving your Mistress

This is a post about Mindfulness, Hypnosis/ Trance, etc.  Mindfulness, meditation, Hypnosis and trance is very good for enriching an already divine experience.
I've written something of a guide, to help explain how to do things mindfully when serving.  It helps to bring you back to the here and now, which is truly a divine experience you don't want to waste. It happens a lot by  itself in bdsm play, but it can be enriched by focus as well.  MY example is one of boot lacing/ worship, but could be applied to any sort of play, just get creative.

Today the Mistress is in the mood to wear Her favorite boots.  you know where you should be.  After getting Her boots you kneel on the soft rug at Her feet. you are not allowed to look at Her, which is probably for the best as you are easily distracted.  Instead you try to slow your breath. you always get excited in Her presence, you want to chatter or ask something to feel more comfortable. Instead you will breathe deeply, and you cast your eyes toward the carpet, but are looking at nothing in particular, looking inward.  you breathe in slowly and deeply, revelling in the feeling of Her energy, and Her power over you.  It always makes you feel a little buzzed, excited and nervous. you breathe, silently, feeling that feeling in your whole body.  you can smell Her perfume, the smell of leather, incense, your own sweat.  you breathe in these smells and they comfort you. you have been here before, and it always fills you with joy to please your Mistress.  
WHEN SHE ORDERS YOU you pick up one of the boots and place Her soft, beautiful foot inside.  The pure white soft skin of her tender feet are so erotic to the touch.  The tiny red laquered toenails are so sexy and perfectly shaped. The scent of Her feet, The slight wiggle of Her toes, The near weightlessness of Her foot, all of these things tend to give you a rush.  Try to notice every detail of Her feet. you feel the power of you being at Her feet, the powerful sexual rush of being able to SERVE Her, it is intoxicating. your mind may wander to a fear or desire for later, let that thought be LATER. This is what you are doing NOW. Don't be mad at yourself for wandering in your mind, just come back to NOW and how good it feels.  Every inch of Her beautiful legs will soon be embraced by the boot in your hands.  you may have an erection now. Don't worry about that either.  Feel yourself becoming erect, feel your naked skin starting to become more sensitive. Her presence, your servitude, the leather, Her skin, it is all so luxurious. 
Feel the leather as you wrap it around Her leg. Listen to the sound of it bending. Watch the way it caresses Her skin.  If the leather goes high enough and you are allowed you may breathe in Her perfect scent. A beautiful, soft, perfect leather boot is now around Her beautiful, soft, perfectly shaped legs.  Take a moment to look at this. How quickly and easy something so perfect and sexy became unnervingly erotic.  you may be dripping with excitement.  Feel how good that feels. Breathe deeply to make sure you are not going to rush anything. you want to savor this moment.
Breathing deeply and calmly, feeling warm and tingly all over, you begin to lace up the boot. Sometimes you start to rush or mess up, maybe because of your pesky erection-Never MIND, you breathe deeply and focus on lacing the boots perfectly.  As you go you slightly pull the laces and make the boot TIGHT around Her, feeling that tightness. She always loves the feeling of tight leather around Her body, this makes you even more excited.  The leather is lustrous and tight around Her soft, unbelievable feminine legs. Watch how much sexier they get as you lace them tighter and go up the leg. When you finally reach the top you look down to make sure there have been no mistakes. you want to do a good job so She will feel as good as you do and want you to do this again. It always feels so good to be at Her feet as you are now. It feels so good to touch Her legs, as you are now. you tie the bow and now it is on to the next boot....

Hopefully you get the picture here. 
Now imagine using this same technique when She is putting you in bondage.  Imagine using this same technique when She has you up on the cross blindfolded, and you don't know what is happening next.  Use all your senses to really be there for the experience.

Sunday, December 23, 2012

XMAS coming!

If you have yet to buy Me a xmas present, feel free to subsidize My severe Nylon addiction by buying either a gift card or something from My wishlist:  HERE.

Thursday, December 20, 2012

Some lovely art and stories!

"In the courtly love tradition of the Middle Ages, a troubadour/knight would find a lady, almost always a married one, and would serve as Her vassal.  He would go through terrible trials on her behalf, undertake dangerous pilgrimages in Her name, suffer awful tortures to prove his love. (This could include bodily mutilation, such as tearing off of the fingernails, the cutting of an ear, etc) He would also write poems and beautiful songs to Her, for no troubadour could succeed without some kind of aesthetic or spiritual quality to impress his lady.  

“I myself have seen this woman draw the stars from the sky; she diverts the course of a fast-flowing river with her incantations; her voice makes the earth gape, it lures the spirits from the tombs, send the bones tumbling from the dying pyre. At her behest, the sad clouds scatter; at her behest, snow falls from a summer's sky.”
― Catullus

Sunday, December 9, 2012

Birthday Spankings!

First I got a lovely new cane fashioned to My specifications... A modification of the old blackthorn.

The Blackthorn bush is found throughout Ireland and the British Isles. It has been prized for centuries as a material for premium walking sticks. The original Blackthorn sticks were 2 to 4 foot long Irish shillelaghs (the national weapon of rural Ireland). In expert hands the shillelagh was so fearsome that during the final occupation of Ireland, the English outlawed it. To get around the law, the Irish turned the shillelagh into a 3-foot walking stick. The English didn't want to appear unreasonable by outlawing walking sticks too, so the Irish kept their modified shillelaghs and the world gained a beautiful and functional walking stick known simply as the Blackthorn.

It is absolutely beautiful and severe.  I love antique implements but sometimes of course they can't be used as harshly as I would like and withstand it.

Then the slave also made a small flogger from the material used in weed whackers.  I think he would like Me to call it the Devil's Squid flogger.  That thing is a beast!!!  Of course, however, it is MY birthday month so I also wanted to play with My single tail whips!!



Tuesday, December 4, 2012

My Birthday Gift to you!

AMNESTY, and general sweetness.

Those of you who wish to take advantage of My fabulous mood, in this most fabulous time of the year, MUST be able to follow impeccably My directions.

1. You must have seen Me for sessions sometime in the past TWO years. It may have been a long time... so much the better as it will brighten My day.

2. You may text My cellphone between the hours of 10am and 2pm.  I MAY NOT ANSWER. I AM VERY BUSY.  The number is : 859 307 6017.

3. You will text something to help Me remember what time we have spent together, My name for you, or how I have abused you in the past ;).  You will then ask if you may be of service to Me THAT DAY.  You will only text if you can be of service THAT DAY.  Spontaneity and service is what this is about.

4. I will tell you if I wish for you to bring Me coffee or tea, with specific instructions. Everything will be clearly outlined to you.  You will take your lunch break that day in service to ME.

5. If you wish to also bring Me a thoughtful birthday gift you should do that!!  No crap please.  Most of you know what I like.  You are also welcome to beg Me if you wish to take Me on a shopping trip for My birthday, obviously I may not want to spend a day with you, but hey, you may have a chance.