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Tuesday, December 24, 2013

A Yuletide Gift for All My followers.

Some days I torture a poor set of genitals with gusto and I watch as blood arrives, pools and drips.  
Some days I watch men shake and quiver and try to escape My ministrations.  
Some days I play My version of Joan Crawford; diaper, soothe and torture a man into helpless baby flesh.  Some days I dress up gorgeous head to toe and go shopping with My attentive slave at My heels. 

Thank you to all of you, who contribute to making My life magical, wonderful, and something to savor.












Monday, December 9, 2013

Mistress Devlynn's Birthday


My birthday is coming up soon!  
I have made a special list for anyone who hopes to observe the holiday.

Thursday, December 5, 2013

The Definition of a True Submissive

What truly defines a submissive?

I spend time with a lot of people who enjoy being in their submissive mind space, and it seems to bring up a lot of questions.  Especially in our society there is a lot of discomfort and shakiness around the need to submit, and those of you who enjoy submission.

In My personal opinion the definition of a submissive is:
A person who enjoys the feelings of relinquishing control.

Most submissives find a combination of thrill or excitement with letting go, and a sort of relief, calming or relaxation from their submission.  Some may find it very easy to let go, some may take a little while.

The myth that all submissives are alpha in real life is simply not true.  Life calls for every one of us to be submissive or alpha at various times. Many of us are in a very submissive mode at the DMV or with a police officer at a traffic stop for instance. Many of us can be very alpha in certain business meetings and then very submissive in other ones.... there is a spectrum here.  Various needs and goals are facilitated by taking on a submissive or alpha role and I don't see any problem with that.  I do agree that some people who spend a great deal of time on one side of this spectrum enjoy time on the other side for a balance. However, a lot of people who are submissive a great deal of time in daily life also enjoy consensual D/s submission because of the consent, eroticism, knowing they are pleasing someone, or just plain kinkiness. As thoughtful and emotional beings we often play with the things that hold the most capacity to hurt us, to develop "callouses", comfort, and safety around those things.

There doesn't really NEED to be a deep seated need in the brain or life of a person to dictate an enjoyment of BDSM. For some of us that is how it works, but not all.  SOME PEOPLE JUST ENJOY A BREAK.  A break from who they are supposed to be, a break from thinking about this and that, a break from the minutia of daily life.  As a sweet little boy wrote lately to Me,
 "Why, when I'm under pressure, or a little depressed, why do I always feel better after a session? Logically it doesn't make much sense to me, but emotionally I guess it does."
Submission is not defined by PAIN.  Painsluts are fabulous and bring a great deal of joy to My life, however you don't need to like pain to be submissive.  Pain, bondage, sissification, protocols, worshipping My feet, and so on are all just TOOLS to help achieve and reinforce that submissive mind state.  One is not more effective than the other, and different tools work for different people.

This brings Me back to lack of control, and why scripted sessions don't work.  Part of what My submissives rely on Me for is to make up sessions for them.  They simply arrive and submit. I have a detailed application of course to help Me learn what tools tend to work best to help them submit, but the choices for what happens and how are Mine.  This is extremely important. Sometimes I will even put a submissive through something they don't enjoy because I enjoy it... you will learn to enjoy and want MY fetishes.  This only reinforces the high of the lack of control you can feel.  In the process of doing the thing I want you to do, a wave of powerlessness, the emptying of YOUR life, YOUR day, YOUR wishes happens.  WE (that's YOU AND ME) are shutting off your conscious mind and letting Me run your mind and body.

24/7 submission to Me is not so much a different ball game as a longer amount of time spent in that submissive mind state.  Just as with exercising, meditation or any other practice the more time spent can create a deepening, ease, discovery of different levels of submission and so on. Of course this requires a longer amount of time with Me in the controlling and dominant position, so this is something I don't take lightly or enter into without a great deal of chemistry and discussion of goals.  I look at 24/7 submission as a way for Me as a Goddess to mold, shape and enrich the entire life of My submissive. I may also require some dark evil things for My own lust and prurient interests, but largely I am a sweet, caring Mistress to My 24/7 slaves. I am truly dominant and pretty self centered however, so I am not sweet and caring because the submissive wants that, but because being that sort of Goddess makes Me happy and adds to My life.





Tuesday, December 3, 2013

A Story of Love for Electro Torture

As something of a natural sadist and top growing up I innocently found the fun of ropes, chains, blades, and whips quite early on.  The joys of Electric Torture were to come to Me later... and never leave!

My first electro toy didn't seem to work for Me. I had a tiny regular therapy style TENS unit given to Me by My Leather mentor one afternoon while I had a particular submissive painslut tied up firmly in a body bag, hooded- fully restrained.  This TENS didn't really do much at all and was quite a let down.
Being both a sadist and idealist, I knew there was better out there but it would be awhile before I would see.

When I started furnishing My own dungeon I decided to start buying some electro torture toys to see what I liked best.  As with whips or anything else, I really prefer a toy that can straddle the whole spectrum between sensual pleasure and insane, mind boggling pain.   Dialing up between the two sides of the spectrum is really probably also a dialing up of My sadistic pleasure.  Of course, sometimes to a very masochistic submissive, never dialing up is even more mean.


I got the Zeus 6 channel powerbox first as it seemed to offer the most possibilities for attachments for a somewhat decent price. I MUST warn, when I received this box it did NOT have a very good how to manual.  Luckily however I have a lot of friends that enjoy helping Me "test" out My terrible toys, so I just used this an occasion to throw an electro torture party.  There was truly a lot of "Oh, I don't feel anything yet."  followed by the "WOW! Oh, do that again!"  and soon we had figured a lot out about the device. The particular woman I was testing this on was someone who can take and enjoy a bit of torture so I knew I had a toy that suited My taste.  I now have more attachments for this thing than I can keep organized... clips, clamps, insertable plugs, penis bands, and MY absolute favorite- the gloves!


The gloves are a specifically wonderful toy for the creative sadist because they go very easily and quickly from sweet and nice to terrible and unbelievably sadistic just from how I apply My hands, or where I apply them.  Obviously the fact they are a natural extension of My body also helps.  The gloves also allow Me to hold metal and charge it, which can be very fun with all kinds of metal toys and insertables... and means any toy I touch that is conductive can become a vehicle for more electro torture...

JUST ADD ELECTRO!
I have wasted money on many inferior electro torture toys. One I was particularly enjoying continuously broke, I have now bought the stupid thing several times and won't buy it again. Either these are poorly made or I just put them through too much (which I am willing to admit is possible.)  If the toys can't take the heat though, they don't belong in My kitchen! I'm speaking about the electrogasm by Zeus.

WHY I LOVED this electro toy: It had a remote control.  I am a sucker for remote control. It allows for so much humiliation, public control and fun games.  Hence why I bought it again and again. It also had the ability to make a man feel like he was being penetrated anally with no internal... the currents would course through his muscles, he would often be completely confused about what was happening to him, and in the end there was nothing penetrating him at all. Obviously this could be really useful and fun for anal training and play, or people afraid or not ready to be penetrated to experience the sensation. Of course I can do this with other toys, but this was a tiny remote device. I have two broken ones in a drawer if anyone wants to fiddle with the wiring, along with stacks of new pads for them.


ELECTRO TORTURE CAN BE VERY SCARY.

There is less lead time for the submissive to know what
is about to happen.  There is less sound, motion or other clues for the submissive to know how much it is about to hurt.  The sadist or dom in charge MUST be in tune with their submissive, as they can mostly only see by reaction how much pain they are truly in.  It can also be extremely pleasurable, surprisingly so for some of My submissives. I have seen more than one time a submissive forced to orgasm quite quickly and easily with just the electric current.... although I can't help thinking those tight restraints helped them just a little too!

AND then I discovered the Violet WAND!  But I suppose I will write on that later on.





Monday, December 2, 2013

Sissy Slut Soap Training


I had a lovely afternoon training a poor little sissy who has been trying to see Me for years. Finally in My care, this sissy was beyond nervous!  I love when a submissive has only been in My presence for 10 minutes and already has sweat beading up on their forehead!
First training focused on the basics, positions, My preferred attire for My sissy, and helping the sissy get into the right headspace to truly be subservient, slutty and cute.

A quick operation in the medical room and we had replaced the gross hairy A-cup man boobs with some lovely, pendulous silicone tits!  A nice full bust really makes the waist look nice and trim.  Add a steel corset and anyone can have a wonderful barbie-doll body!
Check out those realistic nipples!



I have to say I was in a particularly sadistic and impatient mood today, so it seemed the only way to teach this sissy to correct her manners was a nice big bar of soap in her mouth.  Do sissies have dirty mouths?  Well, not anymore.
Regardless of My somewhat severe ministrations, sissy seems to be very grateful for her training... most grateful however that I didn't make her wear a cage for Me for the rest of the week.














Saturday, November 30, 2013

A Few Toys for December- WARNING- a bit DEMENTED.

As usual I am always slowly acquiring new fun devices to help Me enjoy My human toys even more.
I am particularly excited about a couple of the new terrible and fun things I have picked up lately in My endless search for things to make your life less boring and help you behave! A FAIR warning, some are a bit demented... don't look if you are prone to Devlynn DeSade haunted nightmares or visions of torture!

MY personal local friendly leather guy, with some nice, thick and strong thigh restraints I commissioned from him.  His business is Request Leather, and he makes me anything I can dream up.  I got tired of you little worms being able to hide your junk from Me when you get scared, so, Voila!  Lovely, highly adjustable thick leather thigh cuffs to keep you at attention for Me!











The Oxballs silicon "Pig-hole" fuckplug.  As some of you know I was trained by a Leather Sir years ago so I always have a special place in My heart for pigs and leather boys. How does this little jewel work?  From the Oxballs site:
The thing conforms to your hole, the oval ergo shape keeps the plug in optimum fuck-ready position…sure, your “new” hole will gape open, you will have zero control…giving total access…you are a sewer…a gaping MAN-HOLE…




The Maestro Multi-Faceted Fucking Machine-
I had to have this model because its infinite adjustability makes My ability to come up with terrible ways to use it infinite as well.  It pivots there in the center- I have yet to use it on a slave standing up, tied spread eagle, but that would be just mean!











Can't see Me for while but want to contribute to My torture of the male? 

Saturday, November 16, 2013

10 Benefits of Protocol Training

I am a strong believer in the efficacy, usefulness as well as the luxury and sexiness of Protocols with My slaves.


5 Ways the following of protocols can benefit the slave.


1.       It establishes and is a constant re-enforcement of the slaves place in the Mistress /slave relationship.

2.       Once memorized makes tasks easier because some of the task will be already established as a routine.

3.       The protocols make the slave feel protected and cared for because the Mistress has invested time on the slave in teaching them to the slave.

4.       Once protocols are learned it makes it less likely that the slave will get into trouble with his Mistress due to inappropriate behavior, embarrassing behavior which reflects badly on his Mistress or due to failing to complete a task correctly and or within the established time table for the particular assignment.  

5.       Leaning protocols and living by them adds structure and order to the slaves’ life actually enriching his life in all aspects.


5 ways the following of protocols can make Mistress Devlynn’s life easier.


1.       Protocols save the Mistress time because she only has to explain portions of a task that are specific to the particular task. The slave will already know the general guidelines for performing the task properly.

2.       Protocols make it less likely that a Mistress will have to lose her temper in regards to the slaves’ behavior because once learned the Slave is more likely to behave in a manner appropriate for a slave of the Mistress.

3.       Established protocol makes it less likely for the slave to reflect badly on his Mistress and make it much less likely for her to have to take time to discipline the slave in public.

4.       It makes it easier for the mistress if she happens to have to be away from the slave for period of time because she can be confident that when she returns that the slave will have been behaving properly and will not need to be retrained upon her return or will require only minor refreshment in proper behavior or minor punishment.

5.       Once the slave has learned established protocols it makes it possible for the Mistress to feel confident that if she gives a task to the slave it will be accomplished in timely manner and completed to at least a satisfactory level and more often than not exceed expectation. This gives an added benefit in allowing the Mistress to concentrate her efforts on other matters once the slave has been dispatched to perform the assigned task.

Sunday, November 10, 2013

TEASE



Calling ALL Burlesque beauties, pinup cuties, vixens and femme fatales!

Wiggle into your finest pinup attire and join us at the Dock for another evening of pure decadence and debauchery!

We will be outfitting the back of the Dock with all manner of toys and bondage equipment for those of you who wish to get frisky!
If you are a regular player and have any special requests for equipment please contact DevlynnDeSade privately. This is a night to live out your fantasies.
Slaves will be provided for any females wanting to learn or try their hand.
Play with Ms. Devlynn or your own toys!

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Fetish attire, lingerie, feathers, fishnets, gloves, heels,
Xdressing is ALLOWED and ACCEPTED HERE.
Males not wishing to Xdress-
We'd love to see you in your traditional 1950s household
cigar smoking, martini having finest!


Wednesday, October 30, 2013

Sunday, October 27, 2013

This THURSDAY! SHOCK TREATMENT



THIS THURSDAY!!!

Your favorite shockingly addictive bitch will be administering all manner of electrifying fun!
The evening begins at 10pm, Thursday evening, at the Dock in Cincinnati.  Costumes or fetish wear encouraged but not required.  There is a cover, there will be drinking, dancing and full on DEBAUCHERY in the delicious style of the House of DeSade.

Any Ladies who would like to participate in the evening with Me should email directly.

Thursday, October 24, 2013

A few photos from the Goddess Party

The Butler did it!  In the red room with the candlestick!
The Goddess Party was lovely.  We had roughly 13 Goddesses in attendance, in full demanding, luxurious Goddess mode.  The slaves, maid and butler were in absolutely top form- I suppose that's what years of training can do for you!  There were only 5 males allowed to serve at this party, so if you were not allowed to serve, you should be fully aware not many males were allowed.  I may have another, more completely open party for Goddess worship in the future.  This party was about Goddesses being served, worshiped, and adored, and not at all about the slaves or submissives.  I know many of you may find that hard to understand but.... welcome to real Femdom lifestyle. 





Thursday, October 17, 2013

Myths and Reality: "Slaves have no Limits"

As a real life Female Supremacist and keeper of male slaves, I am not the full authority on these matters, and can only speak of My experience.  I can also draw from My learning about other Females of the same nature, and their slaves, and how they are in real life.
Regarding the myth: SLAVES HAVE NO LIMITS.
"Slaves have no limits, so perhaps I am a submissive."
Slaves DO have no limits to their Mistress. A slave, in My world, a REAL slave, has been with their Mistress for a long time. They have already spent a few years working out the kinks of their actual real life limitations, be it :

  • Physical concerns; Illnesses, inability to take too much pain, doesn't like nipple torture, can't physically be on knees for more than a short time, bad back, etc.
  • Worldly concerns; Only has certain amount of money to spend on Her per month, would not like to be outed BDSM wise to family members, must continue 9-5 work schedule, etc.
  • Emotional Concerns; Likes to feel needed and appreciated, gets frazzled when dealing with family issues/ deaths in the family, likes to be reassured of their status weekly.
  • Personal Tastes; Is grossed out by indian food, anal play, Loves when She dresses up nice or in stockings.
A Mistress/ slave relationship is a long process of learning and growing.  It is somewhat a Mistress's job to know all these things about Her charge, and he will also know much about Her once all is said and done. 
My REAL slaves do have no limits to Me. This is because they have known Me long enough, we have learned about each other enough.  They trust Me unequivocally to take care of them, their needs, and not abuse My power. I may push their limits, I may do things I like and they do not, however, they are always safe and at this point in the game with Me they know that, once again, unequivocally.

So that is how it is that Slaves Have No Limits.  It takes time, care, and trust to establish such a thing and it is not to be taken lightly.  

Monday, October 14, 2013

Goddess Devlynn's HIGH PROTOCOL SLAVE POSITIONS

Present. 

This is a position of supplication and offering of the body and mind of the slave to the Goddess for Her use and pleasure. On knees, Bottom positioned over hips, knees spread to expose genitals and torso. Hands placed open on thighs in supplication.





Tower. 

This is a position of attentive rest for the slave. On knees, upright tower with torso, knees together. Hands placed palm down on thighs, or behind as suits the slave and Goddess.








Worship. (also known as "OBEY")
This is a position of worship and respect. It can denote simple obedience or be used for foot massage/ worship, or simply respect and worshipful attitude. Begin in present position, then move head to the floor, arms in a triangular position with hands near the face. Lift the head roughly four inches from the floor. you can easily see, both slave's head and hands are in position to worship Her feet with the use of both his hands and his face, body should be well supported so slave can stay in position as SHE likes.

Whipping. This is a position offering your body for HER use, for whipping, strapon, nipple torture, ball torture, whatever. This is also a position to help the slave feel their complete vulnerability to HER. Begin in worship position. Head goes to the floor, arms in triangle position as before, but placed together for support, Ass should be in the air, muscles spreading open but comfortable. If anything that should be exposed seems blocked by limbs, adjust until all is clearly at HER reach.


Standing/ Walking


This a position for the world, and for other service. Slave should stand with eyes lowered, hands folded behind or before, with good posture, at HER right hand but a few feet behind HER. Slave is out of HER way, but available and attentive to any needs at any time.




Footstool. 
This is a position for HER comfort and pleasure. Slave will fold his body into a small footstool, this position may change based on the Goddess and HER needs. He may be a small ball, or on all fours, depending on the height SHE needs. His object however is to be SMALL, unobtrusive, and a completely silent and still useful piece of elegant, decadent furniture for HER.







Make every attempt with all positions to be as 
UNOBTRUSIVE and SMALL as possible.
The goal is to be as useful and graceful as possible WHILE taking up little space, making clear your obedience, and to allow your body to be completely vulnerable to HER ministrations.



Tuesday, October 8, 2013

An Evening of Goddess Worship and Adoration


Ladies, Join The Mistress Devlynn Desade at her fully stocked and well equipped but warm and cozy dungeon for an evening of worshipful pampering and indulgence that a Goddess like YOU truly deserves!


 To start YOUR special evening and to help you relax and get in the mood Light Hors d'oeuvres and drinks will be served by our kitchen slave. If you wish, you may just sit and relax with other lovely ladies in the living room. There will never be a reason for you to get up. Maybe you would like a shoulder or foot massage while enjoying a drink? Maybe you would enjoy a Sissy strip show?  Just speak YOUR COMMAND and it will be obediently and efficiently fulfilled. You will be tended and fawned over by a staff of REAL slaves who earnestly yearn to worship you and obey you and serve you. Remember, this is YOUR night. You ARE a GODDESS. You will be given a catalog of the slaves with their talents, interests and limits.  Whatever your fancy you will probably find a slave. These slaves have been hand selected and WELL trained by Mistress Devlynn and are obedient, efficient and disciplined. But, if one does seem a bit naughty or insolent, they ARE males after all, or if you’re just in a playful mood you are free to put them over your knee or escort the slave upstairs. There you will find a school room with a nice desk to bend them over or for more serious work a paddling bench with arm and leg straps. There is also a St. Andrews Cross, a suspension cage with suspension sling and arm and ankle suspension attachments. There is a cushioned punishment table where your slave can be fully bound lengthwise or simply bent over for your attention and still more dungeon accessories.  As for “tools”, you will find a HUGE selection of toys including paddles in many shapes, sizes, lengths and weights from small slappers that really,really STING to brutal, heavy bruisers that will likely have them crying and pleading for you to stop with just a few solid licks on their bare bottom. There are single tale whips, rubber whips, floggers that vary from soft and soothing to ones that can easily flay the outer layer of skin from an unprotected behind. There are whippy stingy canes that will have your slave bouncing and yelping with every stroke and heavy ones that  give more of deep muscle bruising thud.  It’s up to you what you use. YOU are the Goddess! Maybe experiment with different implements until you find  one that gives the result you are looking for and then, LET THEM HAVE IT! That sounds fun doesn’t it?   If your taste is maybe a little more adventurous there is a medical examination room. Perhaps you would like to be a medical student intern for the evening?  You will find a host of examination tools: sounds, speculums, pin wheels, disposable needles and more and rubber gloves, exam coats and disinfectants. Mistress Devlynn will be more than happy to be your attending Physician and you can find a “patient” from the catalog. There are electrical toys as well. Mistress Devlynn can assist you in the proper technique and use of these. They can be very enjoyable to the “victim” or you could have them SCREAMING and BEGGING for your mercy. You could of course gag the slave if you don’t desire a lot of noise.  Ever hear of fireplay? Want to try it?  Select a slave and with Mistress Devlynn’s assistance enjoy some HOT fun! There are also dildos and strap ons with antiseptics and lubricants. Pick a slave and put him on his hands and knees or shove him over a punishment bench. The slaves are YOURS to command and enjoy. YOU are a Goddess! Have fun!  Use your imagination. Be creative with your human toy.  If you would like a new experience but just aren’t quite sure what ask Mistress Devlynn for a suggestion. She would LOVE to make a recommendation and teach you a new skill.


Sound like fun? Remember YOU are a beautiful GODDESS QUEEN this night!


We hope to see you soon!





You are also welcome to bring or recommend a slave; however, they will be required to attend early for high Protocol training.

Wednesday, October 2, 2013

Back to School Shenanigans

Bad Butts of the Evening
Happy winner of the Purple Metallic Whip!
The Bracelet Code, allowing Shy ones and Newbies a chance to play since the swinger parties of the 70s.

Finally, a place to wear all our fetish gear and enjoy it.