I do trample. I do use My weight and My muscles. You are NOT invited to use yours, unless it is in service to Me. THAT is what I like.
I wear what I like. I will honor a submissive's tastes and fetishes... because guess why? If you wear 6 inch boots around a boot fetishist... you will watch him submit immediately.. and THAT IS FUN. Why would I not choose to make submission more swift ? Walking in a room in a full latex outfit makes things pretty swift. Men are visual creatures, and can easily be controlled, manipulated and played with via their eyes... or even the restriction of their eyes.
I have been asked by a couple submissives to wear track pants. This I simply will not do. :P
I don't have to wear fetish wear to be dominant. However, when I wear fetish wear it can put Me into the right mood.
I like fetish wear.
I like what fetish wear does to other people when I wear it.
Yes I could wear whatever I like, AND SO I WILL.
I like to honor the ritual and perform it as I see fit. Don't bring your boring, lackluster suburban sex life preferences into My life, thank you.
A priest wears robes, a nurse wears scrubs, and I wear stockings, heels and rubber.
Basically there are things in fetish that I see as degrading or distasteful and there are things I do not. I will not judge another but these are My tastes.