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Saturday, December 19, 2015

Happy Birthday to Me!
Thanks to all the slaves who are making it wonderful!

Thursday, December 17, 2015


AMNESTY, and general sweetness.

Those of you who wish to take advantage of My fabulous mood, in this most fabulous time of the year, MUST be able to follow impeccably My directions.

1. You must have seen Me for sessions sometime in the past FOUR years. It may have been a long time... so much the better as it will brighten My day.

2. You may email between the hours of 10am and 5pm.  I MAY NOT ANSWER. I AM VERY BUSY.

3. You will email something to help Me remember what time we have spent together, My name for you, or how I have abused you in the past ;).  You will then ask if you may be of service to Me THAT DAY.  You will only text if you can be of service THAT DAY.  Spontaneity and service is what this is about.

4. I will tell you if I wish for you to bring Me coffee or tea, with specific instructions. Everything will be clearly outlined to you.  You will take your lunch break that day in service to ME.

5. If you wish to also bring Me a thoughtful birthday gift you should do that!!  No crap please.  Most of you know what I like.  You are also welcome to beg Me if you wish to take Me on a shopping trip for My birthday, obviously I may not want to spend a day with you, but hey, you may have a chance.

Monday, December 14, 2015

It's that time of the year again. During some of the winter I do work on the dungeon.  I will be replenishing a lot of toys and also getting some new ones.  If you have any ideas or want to contribute check out My "New Toys for Me to Play with" wishlist.

This Saturday is also My birthday. As I have done in years past, if you are a safe, verified slave or submissive and you would like to pay Me a short visit, run an errand, or kiss My feet in gratitude for filling your life with fetish Femdom fabulousness, email Me and request a few times or dates.  I am very busy as always, but it's nice for Me to see those familiar faces and feel appreciated!
If you cannot make it in to see Me but want to send Me something...  gift certificates to Westward Bound Latex, Secrets in Lace, Nordstrom, DSW are all wonderful ideas.  Below is My amazon wishlist link.


Thursday, December 10, 2015

Order of Indomitus in Florida

Get your application in for the Next ORDER of INDOMITUS Full weekend of Femdom in JANUARY!!! Make sure you don't miss it!  I had an amazing time!

"TOTALLY RECOMMENDED ! ! ! I had the honor of being a part of this Great Event and all I can say is go for it you will never regret it ! I just had the best weekend in my life !" - slave 003

Wednesday, December 2, 2015

Latex Slavery

After photoshoots and wearing whatever I lust after all week, a pile of luxurious latex piles up.
No need for Me to worry about it even though these pieces are quite expensive.  My latex wardrobe features pieces from Venus Prototype, a no longer available female designer from California, DeMask of Amsterdam, Atsuko Kudo, Libidex, Westward Bound, Madame S, So Hip it Hurts, Ooh La La Latex, Renee Masoomian, Slinky Skin, and even includes pieces handmade by Myself to fit My body perfectly. Latex clothing is handmade and much of My collection is completely one of a kind.

There is sumptuous gold latex, piles of slick gorgeous black, sheer translucent rubber to show off My tattoos.  Sturdy steel boned corsets to sculpt My body into something statuesque. Seamed stockings and garter belts to hold them up... what Femme could do without these? A translucent catsuit with huge inflatable torpedo boobs for when I am in a particularly fun and saucy mood. A few simple pieces for when I want to wear latex out on the town for no reason at all... though their simplicity does not lead to any less stares.

In a photoshoot with one of My favorite kinky photographers I may use a suitcase full of latex. Layers may be worn.  And I am very picky!  This is when the Latex Slave comes in handy.
This slave enjoys being of service. He enjoys seeing Me in this rubber as much as possible so he knows its care and maintenance is a part of that joy.
Piles of latex must be cleaned by hand, piece by piece, carefully in a sink.  He then hangs each piece in the shower to drip momentarily.  When it is no longer soaking, he lays out each piece on a towel to dry in the dungeon, inside out.  Once all the pieces are drying, he starts the next part of the process. He dries the rubber with the towels, then turns them right side out again to dry the outside layer, applying a thin layer of a lightly scented powder I like to the inside. This prevents the sticking that could possibly ruin a piece.
Some pieces are hung in a closet on plastic hangers covered in tissue paper. Some are bagged in zip baggies and labelled.  Over the years I have had several latex slaves, I hate training new ones, but once again, I am very picky.

Tuesday, November 10, 2015

Monday, November 2, 2015

A submissive washing dishes for his dominant, knowing that each soap bubble, each swirl of water is a gift, an honoring, may feel the humming resonance of a hunger, partially satisfied, deep in his spirit. A domme, caught up in the meditative precision of tying each knot precisely *so*, may feel an echo of cathedral walls around her, each motion guiding her, and those around her closer to the God they seek. A masochist, floating in the scintillations of painwaves as the whip falls against him time and time again, may begin to feel their cadence as the cadence of prayer. A hesitant sadist may, with the first hissing of her partner's breath, begin to understand the transformative power She wields with her strap.

Friday, October 30, 2015

Wearing My spectacular latex bodysuit with such a sexy high cut My legs look endless...  A thong back... A three way zipper for teasing...  A recipe for disaster for you.  This set is a absolutely filthy teasing at its best. I love how this rubber bodysuit accents My Gorgeous thighs, and jaw dropping ass.  Savor this one boys!

Monday, October 26, 2015

A little Primer on Electrical Play

 Some people are afraid of electrical play and some people love it.  Some people only know about one kind of electric play.
In My dungeon, I use all different kinds of electrical devices.  I love the medical mad scientist feeling.  I love that most of My electrical implements don't leave marks even when used to quite severe and sadistic ends.  I love that I can show some less masochistic submissives how fun electrical toys can be.  A lot of people that do not like pain absolutely love the various sensations that come from a violet wand.
So a simple Electrical toys 101 for the curious or inspired...  And alongside, photos that were taken in My dungeon with ONLY the light of the violet wand.  So first there are two kinds of electrical feelings.

One kind goes through the skin and into the muscles.  
This would be like the tens type machines you see people using for pain.  Of course the "tens" types machines you will see in a Domina's dungeon are a bit more advanced and can end up costing us about a grand.  For the extra money we pay, we get more programs, more sensation, the ability to create our own programs, some of which are so complex and wonderful they have been able to produce hands free orgasms.  I personally have several Erostek devices, one with a remote control, one which I can control with the sound of My voice or the sound of My heels clicking on the floor, etc, and one insanely large and complex box that has hundreds of applications. I honestly don't think My life will be long enough to explore every possible thing in that box, which is probably why I bought it. I will of course see how well I can do ;)
With these machines, the Domina may have any number of ways to apply the electricity to you. There are gloves, one of My personal favorites, sticky pads, clamps and clips for torturous electrical CBT and the like, and some very interesting insertables.  Insertables are amazing and I love them. There is nothing like a poor slave tied up and controlling severe fucking sensations that are happening to him, while he is quivering and completely going nuts, and I am calmly playing with My little device.

One kind plays along the skin...
MOST applications of the violet wand are of this style. They can be little sparkly sensual licking feelings or zaps.  One can create the sensation of being sliced with razor, but leave no mark.  In My dungeon there are zapper devices built just for kinky play. There are also a couple of violet wands, originally used for pseudo- medical purposes but now mostly used by kinksters as well. One of these has a contact wand, which electrifies the subject so anything that touches them shocks them. This is a wonderful way to play with multiple people, or create predicaments. All kinds of people, kinky or not, have tried the violet wand at My hand for simple exploration and found they absolutely loved the feelings.  Some have found them quite addictive and I have to tell them to move on so I can let other people try it!

Regarding safety:
I personally prefer to not engage in electrical play with people who have heart issues or pacemakers. Some people like to advise to never play with electricity above the waist.  These people are doing a great disservice to those Nipple Torture aficionados.  Early on in My domination career I followed this rule, but now I find the violet wand is very safe above the waist, along with some forms of Estim that obviously don't go from nipple to nipple.  I never do anything involving the head, expect give a little shock to the lips or earlobe once in awhile for fun.

Thursday, October 22, 2015

The bdsm friend zone

Its interesting and disheartening to see that bdsm culture has pretty much full absorbed the inconvenient and obsolete useless notions of romantic love that are prevalent in vanilla culture.
Throughout the bdsm world there are men and women looking for their bdsm soulmate.
Ah this magical person... they will be physically attractive to you, by your standards, which are often not even related to your own level of physical attractiveness.  For instance, obese men in their 50s who hope to be slave to young fit woman who watches what she eats and goes to gym to keep that ass up, yet have no intention of ever working out themselves.  She will apparently drink shitty beer with you and eat big greasy meals at TGI Friday's but have great skin and the body of a Goddess through some miracle. She will have her own collection of fetish wear but not mind the fact that you wear cargo pants, sneakers, and xxl t-shirts to fetish parties. After all, who doesn't get turned on by overweight middle aged men in cargo pants?
She will fulfill a list of requirements you have emotionally, in life goals, in demeanor, in hobbies, in attitude.
They will also fulfill a list of requirements you have kink wise... for instance, they will like heavy bondage, CBT, or spanking or service.  They will even approach these things the WAY you want... slutty, classy, playful, humiliating.  They will be the yin to your yang... sub to your dom or vice versa.  Oh, you are willing to try a couple new things, but you have your list and some real dealbreakers.
AND THE MOST IMPORTANT... they will want you, and like you for you, and want to play with you just because.

The play never happens.

What actually happens 99.99999 % of the time is you either never find this person, or you find something close, and they are not actually interested in you.

The entire time, you are surrounded by people you could play with but you have placed them in the BDSM friendzone.  They only fulfilled 80 percent of your list, and for some reason, (looks, personality, lack of chemistry) you're not playing with them.
I have watched this even in gay leather culture at this point, the bullshit straight society's ideas polluting what we should be having... which is a GOOD FUCKING TIME.

Loosen up and remember this was supposed to be PLAY.
Get the stick out of your ass that society put there and have some fun.  You are only hurting yourself... when there are perfectly good candidates out there to hurt you instead ;)

Put a blindfold on and forget about looks.
Buy that lady some fetish wear or toys!
Buy yourself some fucking fetish wear.... women are visually stimulated too!
Go work out if you want a buff chick.
If you want something way above your level, don't dismiss the idea of giving something in return for Her time.

Friday, October 9, 2015

I am an experienced, very beautiful female supremacist. I am also a lifestyle Dominatrix who lives the female domination lifestyle outside of professional sessions. A Mistress and Dominatrix and Goddess.. I am all of these. My clothing style is that of elegance mixed with strong fetish overtones.  I am a sadist but I am also realistic and respect all limits. Your desire to be dominated is matched and nearly always exceeded my overwhelming need to dominate and control. I do not play at domination, I do not go home to a vanilla environment afterwards;  femdom is completely natural.

I have the ability to fulfill your fantasies and make them come true. I will make you want me more than anything you have experienced before.  My appearance can stop your heart dead and you will yearn to crawl at my feet and suffer any degradation just to please your Goddess. My beauty and dominance will leave you in complete awe, helpless to resist and desperate. My intelligence and style will leave you in no doubt that I am completely superior to you in every way. One visit to me and you will know your destiny.

No one else compares.. I am a ruthless, superior woman, a Dominatrix and Mistress in every meaning.

Sunday, October 4, 2015

Appointments in Cincinnati start next weekend.
Emails will be answered eventually, Resending your request for My time is welcome and totally appropriate.

Thank you to the submissive who bought Me this gorgeous new latex dress.  It makes Me feel wonderful!

Friday, September 18, 2015

Cruel Whipping in public- Video

Just one of My many well trained male submissives gets down on his hands and knees in public to endure My single tail whipping... you can hear the whip even over the loud club music.  Gorgeous view of My legs in this video, dressed in Latex hotpants and halter top a slave bought Me while in LA!


Photo after his whipping:  

Monday, September 14, 2015

New Additions to the Dungeon

Strict Heavy Duty Arm Binders from Fetters, and a new Estim CBT device. 

Boot Worship anyone??

Wednesday, September 9, 2015

Cleanliness becomes more important when Godliness is unlikely...

Did you know some people fit 3 feet of this tubing up in themselves to clean out?  

Monday, September 7, 2015

Today was a lovely day in the dungeon.

Excited to be taking a cruise to the Bahamas this month!  I advise those who cannot live without Me to plan ahead and take advantage of My very limited schedule.

In Cincinnati September now til the 22nd.
Unavailable dates: 
September 12, September 15, September 19,

Thursday, August 27, 2015

While you drift away in complete sensory deprivation,
I play with My little electro box.

So many medical toys to experience, so little time.

Monday, August 24, 2015

What I look for or enjoy in a submissive subject:

Willingness to play and have fun (playful nature)
Respects My privacy
Respectively cares for his own physical, emotional and financial well being.
Working to better himself in one way or another.
Well read and intelligent.
Quiet and good at listening.
Attentive to My needs or desires.
No games or power struggles (I will always just move on)
Full respect and gratitude for what I offer
Responsive during play (I don't like playing with a dead body)
Open to new experiences
Expressive about what he enjoys
Positive attitude

Wednesday, August 19, 2015


I have fixed up My niteflirt listings this week and will now be offering a Hypnosis Line.

Those of you who have experienced being put into a deep hypnotic state by My lovely voice are now able to have this experience more easily.  I still will be offering My normal line, and now with an actual enjoyable activity for Me to do with you on the phone I will be turning My phones on a few times a week.   This is a wonderful option for those of you who wish you could see more but cannot for discretion, travel, or other reasons.  Slaves who have been petitioning to serve Me more often, well here is one chance for you.

If you would like to request a special training time with Me over the phone, email Me with a few times and dates. I'm very busy but I absolutely love Femdom Hypnosis right now.  Follow Me on twitter to receive on time updates when I'm available.

Monday, August 17, 2015

I'm taking calls on #NiteFlirt for a VERY LIMITED TIME 1-800-To-Flirt, ext:9457515

Friday, August 14, 2015

Scheduling and Travel

Availability In Cincinnati:  
Training appointments start next week.  Available till the 28th, then again after September the 4th.

Once again, I thoroughly enjoyed the quality of male specimens that visited Me on My last trip to Louisville, however,  I am very busy and may not return until after next year. This leaves two options for Louisville submissives: visit Me in My extremely awesome, insanely well equipped dungeon in Cincinnati, or pay My travel expenses to your city.

If you would like to travel in service to Me, perhaps to a BDSM or fetish event I am now planning the next 365 days of travel, so make your request. A slave vacation in service to a Goddess... think about the possibilities.

Cities of interest I may be visiting in the next year: Chicago, Indianapolis, Tampa, San Francisco, LA, Phoenix, Denver, Aspen, NYC.

Wednesday, August 5, 2015




Sunday, August 2, 2015

Cincinnati's Second Annual Bondage Ball

The Governess negotiating with a newbie sub

Leatherfolk from Louisville

Fire Whipping

Local Kink Vendors

Fire Goddess

He took a good whipping from the Governess!

Couples having fun

Sublime and beautiful in bondage. My favorite

Goddess Sadie from Phoenix!!! 

I did these large 6x4 foot drawings of John Willie pinups for the evening.

Look how much fun we are having whipping his nips!