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Friday, April 24, 2015

FETISH PARTY IN CINCINNATI, MAY 29!

SAPIOSEXUALS UNITE!
Spend the evening in exploration...
A sort of "SEXY SCIENCE FAIR"

Are you ready to experiment?

We have Doctors of various repute on hand to show you the exciting possibilities of quack medicine and to cure what ails you. If you consider yourself a hedonist, or "try-sexual" YOU CANNOT MISS THIS EVENT!

AN EXHIBITION OF ORIGINAL FETISH VIDEO AND RARE ANTIQUE FILM by JON HANCOCK, the man in the plastic suit with the hundred year old cameras!

TURN OF THE CENTURY MEDICAL AND FETISH MARVELS TO AMAZE AND TRY HANDS ON!!!
Fetish freaks will have free reign for the evening... ONE OF US! ONE OF US!

*Recommended attire: steampunk, period, or medical themes... or naked of course, there will be lockers and dressing area for the risque.
CORSETS PLEASE BY ALL MEANS,

BYOB and munchies.
Rooms of fetish play and exploration.
Huge dance floor. Anything GOES HERE.

THINGS TO EXPERIENCE ON THIS EVENING

Femdom fetish and domination courtesy of Dr. Devlynn, Male domination and addictive topping from Andy the Nordic Love God, extreme masochists or wary newbies both male and female please apply!
*LATEX VACBED*
Strange steel bondage devices
Straitjackets.
*The Nova Pro Mind Machine*
Violet wands and other strange electro devices dating all the way back to the 1900s.
Antique vibrators from the hysteria era.
Machines of sadistic and sensual design beyond your imagination!

the SADISTIC AND AUDACIOUS DOCTOR DEVLYNN WILL BE PERFORMING SPECIAL ARCANE AND CONTROVERSIAL PROCEDURES IN HER VERY OWN OPERATING THEATER.
WATCH IF YOU CAN HANDLE IT, PLAY IF YOU DARE!!!
SEE YOU SOON!



May 29 at 8:00pm to May 30 at 3:00amClub Sinday, 2830 Cincinnati Dayton Rd.





































Friday, April 17, 2015

The Best Laid Plans...

As many of you know one of the reasons I came into the fetish world so long ago was My love of fetish art and photography.  Hope everyone is enjoying the artwork that I spend My life creating.
This year I am excited to branching out even more and shooting with photographers and even some video across the country! Those of you who are excited to see what I will come up with this year, feel free to contribute to My shoots and My completely unrealistic lifestyle here.

Sessions in Cincinnati commence this weekend and will be available until May 8. 
I have been very busy and if you feel I have forgotten you, send another email. 
I often get buried in mountains of emails. Same day appointments are available only for established and proven pets, and phone call is best for booking those.

TRAVEL DATES:

Louisville May 8-12
LA May 14-18
San Francisco May 18-23



I AM ALSO HOSTING A FETISH PARTY AT THE LOCAL SWINGERS CLUB MAY 29

DETAILS COMING SOON. 
This will be a space filled with dungeon equipment, public entry but private activities allowed.  
The sort of DEBAUCHERY Cincinnati rarely gets to see.  
You're welcome ;)

Tuesday, April 14, 2015

Organ Grinder's Ball

A lovely weekend in Cleveland for the Organ Grinder's Ball.
Here I am with Chocolate Domme!
No other photography was allowed, or I would get kicked out and badmouthed.
My favorite show of the evening was a segment involving breathplay. A lady wheeled out a submissive on a little trolley. He was in a gas mask and the tube was connected to her panties. They did the cutest little show!
Some real kinksters were running around, but as this is a open party there was also a ton of vanilla people.  Hilariously a vanilla guy was hitting on Me and said, "What are you into?"
I didn't want to ruin his entire life, so I said, "I'm into being treated like a Goddess, worshipped..."  He said, "Aren't all women like that?"


I WISH THEY WERE

Monday, April 13, 2015

Don't listen to what society tells you.
It is perfectly natural for you to feel submissive to Me.
It is perfectly natural for these feelings of submission to excite you.
I am not your toy.
It is your desire to be Mine.

In your worship of Me you will find peace.
In your devotion there is calm.
In your service there will be elation.
 
You will find that letting go and letting Goddess was the best gift you gave yourself this year.




Friday, April 10, 2015

What is your Fee? Kink costs.

As a professional Domina I charge an hourly rate for My sessions.
I rarely have anyone balk at or question My rates.  At this point the breadth of My dungeon itself, My experience, expertise and training tend to do the talking for Me.  This is exciting and of course if anyone has been watching over the past 5 years, this was no small feat. I travel throughout the year to learn more, extend My experience, and I invest thousands of dollars every year into both training and the new equipment.
I was sitting talking last night to some young Ladies who are also into the kink scene, one very experienced switch and one slightly less experienced Domme.
I personally CAME into this world through the door of LEATHER.  In the Leather community, many years of learning, teaching and work have went into developing protocols and social mores that protect both the dominant and the submissive.  Living the lifestyle for years means our amazing predecessors have went to the trouble of working out a lot of our kinks for us!
Recently Mistress Evilyne extolled the virtues of one such practice, aftercare, in her blog.  This is worthwhile reading, and the health and well being of the slave or submissive are always cared for within the Leather lifestyle.  Slaves and subs HAVE been mistreated and I have also heard the horror stories, dislocated shoulders, bad burns, all manner of crazy women have caused crazy shit to happen in the name of BDSM.  It is important to have concern here.  If you are new to domination it would be good at the most basic level to know about this.
It would be even better of course for you to have a mentor.
There is a great deal about domination that you cannot learn from books or youtube.  There is even more about domination that you cannot learn until you have been doing it for years, day in and day out.  That's the knowledge and experience that a good mentor can provide.

HERE is a vital nugget of information no one seems to be talking about however.
Domination is energy play, and physical play.
It has a toll on the person administering it, depending on your personal beliefs, this toll is emotional, physical, and spiritual.
I used to regularly spend entire evenings or days or even weekends topping people one after the other. Personally I called this "the Domme Crucible".  I put Myself to My limits, repeatedly, and gave My all.  This was a fast way to perfect My skills and learn a lot.
The day after a Crucible, however, and sometimes even several days after, was like coming down off a coke binge.  I'm sorry if this is TMI for people who would like to see Me as one dimensional fetish providing object, but I am a human being and this stuff is intense. I am not invincible.  My health and other resources are not infinite.

If you give of yourself in this way, if you provide others with something they need, you deserve something back.
In the Leather community this is why a slave or submissive would never show up empty handed to a dominant they are about to play with, even in a non-professional situation. In Sacred Kink, by Lee Harrington, this is called your FEE, fair energy exchange.
My clients who pay in dollars sometimes have the luxury of only paying with dollars and submission. Many times however they also receive a FEE that I deem appropriate AND necessary.  This may be rubbing My feet, cleaning up after a session, bringing Me something I need.  I do what I need to do to continue to sustainably do this. I don't judge My FEE at any given time and the truth is that any submissive who isn't willing to pay a dominant's FEE doesn't deserve to play. Those submissives who have played with Me for a while not only GLADLY pay My FEE, whatever it is, THEY cherish the opportunity to do so.  They know what is on the other side of the exchange and they value it.

The popularity of kink, along with the new categories of players who are just playing has glossed over many things like this.  Many young women don't know their FEE, are not well versed in Leather, and they may not even realize yet how this play will tax them.  They will have a little fun for a while but will quickly burn out or lose interest in playing. Even worse the play with no pay for their hearts will harden them and they will become the "man hating" dominas everyone hates... how do you think they got that way? When a bell swings too far one way it will always swing back.

Being dominant can often be lovely little act where we look so strong, large and invincible, untouchable, superhuman.  Some Dommes I know are pretty fucking superhuman too, which blurs everyone's vision and causes confusion.  The best slaves or submissives can respect and enjoy this and still see our humanity.

If you are a dominant, I think you should get in touch with your needs and get comfortable expressing them.  Otherwise you will be draining yourself for other people's pleasure, and that is completely unsustainable.  The rush you are getting from Topping may seem to feed you but it will not take care of you, and in fact like most drugs it will leave you in a lower place than you started.  You may not notice it for a few years even, but believe Me, it's unsustainable.
This applies to Male Doms as well.  Male Doms can give and get drained also, and they deserve a FEE as well.