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Tuesday, June 30, 2015

Urethral Sounding

Why do we like sounding for BDSM and Femdom play?
First it's good to know there is not always pain involved. Like anal or fisting, sounding is largely about trust and being ready to be violated. Of course as with any kind of play there can be a dance on the spectrum between pleasure and pain.  Most males I have sounded describe the feeling as sensual but scary.
My personal attraction to sounding from a top perspective:

  1. Violation- We are probing a part of the body the submissive usually keeps protected.  He will have a distinct biological urge against what I am doing, and the energy he needs to keep those feelings in check will often lead him to an overwhelmingly submissive state.
  2. Steel- I love all medical and hard, shiny, sterile steel.  
  3. Virginity- See violation, above.

I am asked a lot of questions about sounding and safety by both curious submissives and curious couples.  While I admire the commitment to safety people should not be scared away from sounding play, as men have been stuffing all kinds of things into their urethras on their own.  
  • If your materials are clean and sterile, 
  • your lubricant is sterile and uncontaminated, 
  • you have purchased high quality sounds (cheaper is not better or even ok with Me regarding sounds.), AND
  • you take your time and care with sounding you will be fine.  

Training regarding both safety and technique is important. I was trained to do sounding hands on, with a male subject, and this is how I would recommend anyone learn, with a great mentor.  To book a hands on training session for couples exploration, contact Me here.

Thursday, June 25, 2015

Goddess Party Highlights- part one

The slaves and servants arrived an hour early as they were instructed. Mistress Devlynn and Goddess Sadie quickly whisked them away to their posts for the evening.  There was a Butler, immaculately attired in silver silk vest and black suit for the night's festivities.  There was a Maid... but she didn't have her outfit with her... nor did she even know that would be her task for the evening!

Slave 662 was shown to the serving area for the party and ordered to undress, placing all personal items in a bag which was given the Mistress Devlynn.  There would be no flakey or ill performing maids for this party.  ON went the stockings, girdle, and tight figure formed black dress, breast forms, and a light pink wig from Mistress Devlynn's personal collection.  A frilly bouffant of cotton candy to suit the maid's proclivity for getting over-excited.  Cotton candy pink leather cuffs... and thenMistress Devlynn laid down the Maid's EXTENSIVE responsibilities for the evening.  Goddess Sadie flitted by, "What's the little bitch's name?" "Debbie or Betty? What do you think?" Mistress Devlynn asked with a few grabs and pinches at the maid's pert little excited buns.

"Betty" Both Ladies said, and laughed.
Yes there would be a lot of pinches and abuse to keep this maid on her toes all night.  Serving one woman like Mistress Devlynn is a TALL order.
Serving 15 women at the same time, now that would be quite a feat.
Needless to say mistakes were made, and swiftly corrected.

Before we all feel too sorry for this little sissy maid's dire predicament, it would be interesting to check in on the other slaves for the evening.  Early in the evening as the Beautiful Goddesses of the Evening lounged with a signature artisan cocktail or a delightful gourmet locally made dessert, chatting and perusing the Catalog of Slaves for interesting ideas, the other 3 slave boys were locked away in cages, hooded and in their slave attire.  They had all been strictly trained as to THEIR responsibilities, protocols and slave positions by Mistress Devlynn.
The Butler was clearly instructed and trained as well. Underneath his well appointed suit, his little penis was locked up tightly and kept from his wandering hands.  He greeted each Lady at the door, taking their shoes and then introducing them to the rest of the Goddesses.  He was able to massage feet, one of his great skills at pleasing women, and he also served as the Domo Sub for the party- directly under the Headmistresses should any needs arise at the party.
The Goddesses were gorgeous as they arrived one by one, with great smiles and sparkling eyes. Some had attended other parties, and some were new and looking to learn more about the Femdom lifestyle. This would be an evening of new experiences for everyone!
There is no smoking in the Dungeon.  However, there is a discreet smoking area outside and luckily there is a decent ashtray for use as well.  Many of our Goddesses enjoyed a cigarette...
slave 665 learns about ashtray service - with 6 Goddesses!

One Goddess requested to watch Mistress Devlynn give a whipping, which many of the Goddesses chimed in to join.  For some sadistic reason Mistress Devlynn had decided to chain two slaves together with nipple clamps in the middle of the room to see which one could take the most on their nipples.   Luckily for those two this seemed a worthwhile distraction so several Ladies went upstairs with Goddess Devlynn to let another slave out of the cage and use him in the whipping position.
Whipping and flogging techniques were shared, with Goddess Sadie helping new Ladies learn, and dragon tails, floggers, and whips were all tried on for size.  The slave was well trained (of course!) and filled with gratitude, which he expressed with a lot of fun noises and some "Thank you Goddesses". Goddess Devlynn tends to invite this particular slave because of his general pliability and of course RELIABILITY.

Friday, June 12, 2015


LAST chance to RSVP 

or request slave placement in My High Protocol Goddess Party  
is JUNE 15.



Thursday, June 11, 2015


A High Protocol Private Femdom Party.

June 20, 7:30pm, at the DeSade Academy

An Evening of Pure Elegance and Debauchery for Femdom Devotees and Explorers.

FEATURING Expert Guidance in the Arts of BDSM...

Goddess Sadie Hawkins (AZ)

Goddess Victoria Sapphire (NY)

Goddess Devlynn DeSade (OH)

This is a high protocol party focused on Femdom. Formal attire is preferred for Goddess guests. Slave or submissive attire will be specified by Goddesses to submissives and slaves via our final invitation and instructions to the party. Wine, other beverages and light oeur d'oeuvres will be served.

Goddesses are both welcome and encouraged to bring their own property to this party, however slaves or submissives will be required to attend early and will be subject to a quick training on protocols of this party. All slaves and submissives are also required to fill out an application to serve, detailing for all attending Goddesses what sort of service they may provide, limitations in service, photography consent or nonconsent, etc.

Limits, safety, and consent always paramount.

To LEARN more about HIGH Protocol and why we enjoy it:

Tuesday, June 9, 2015

Goddess Party Slave Application

This is an application for all those who wish to serve in the "s" role at Mistress Devlynn DeSade's High protocol Goddess party on June 20th. Before you take the time to fill this out, make sure you are available on that date from 7pm to possibly 1am at the latest.

As a slave, you still must offer consent for play. your limits and safety WILL be respected. However I have a few requirements: you will be required to provide and wear MY preferred attire. This is somewhat negotiable and easy- but important because as a slave it is your goal to add to the evening and impress the Goddesses. you must be at My dungeon at 7:15 promptly. you must learn the basic high protocol positions and basic slave etiquette from Me at that time, get outfitted, etc. you may be caged or otherwise restrained or made to wait in the dungeon for use. OTHER than these requirements you are allowed a great deal of leeway. BE SURE to be open about your fantasies- they may line up in some way for Me to make something fabulous happen.


Your Name:

What is your experience with BDSM?
*Have you been to other BDSM events, if so mention them:

*Can you provide a reference within the community?

What is your opinion of Femdom lifestyle?
What do you consider your place or most comfortable role in the BDSM/fetish lifestyle?
What type of kinky activities would you possibly be comfortable exploring? (check any that apply, please distinctly mark with several x's your favorites.)
Butler service
CB Bondage
Clamps and Clips
Dildo Training
Dildo Worship
Full Transformation
Hair Pulling
House of Gord style bondage and use
Mother/Daughter Roleplay
Mother/Son Roleplay
Nipple Play
Nipple Torture
Partial Bondage
Partial Transformation
Pet Play
Physical Humiliation
Predicament Bondage
Prisoner Roleplay
Saline Infusion
Sex Change (Simulated, of course)
Sissy Maid Training
Slut Training
Symbolic Bondage
Teacher/Student Roleplay
Vaccum Beds
Verbal Humiliation (mild)
Verbal Humiliation (Severe)
Water Sports
*Special skills of Note: (Impress Me!)

Health Issues We should know about:
Additional comments/ fantasies/ serving requirements (i.e. already owned, significant other rules)