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Friday, October 30, 2015

Wearing My spectacular latex bodysuit with such a sexy high cut My legs look endless...  A thong back... A three way zipper for teasing...  A recipe for disaster for you.  This set is a absolutely filthy teasing at its best. I love how this rubber bodysuit accents My Gorgeous thighs, and jaw dropping ass.  Savor this one boys!

Monday, October 26, 2015

A little Primer on Electrical Play

 Some people are afraid of electrical play and some people love it.  Some people only know about one kind of electric play.
In My dungeon, I use all different kinds of electrical devices.  I love the medical mad scientist feeling.  I love that most of My electrical implements don't leave marks even when used to quite severe and sadistic ends.  I love that I can show some less masochistic submissives how fun electrical toys can be.  A lot of people that do not like pain absolutely love the various sensations that come from a violet wand.
So a simple Electrical toys 101 for the curious or inspired...  And alongside, photos that were taken in My dungeon with ONLY the light of the violet wand.  So first there are two kinds of electrical feelings.

One kind goes through the skin and into the muscles.  
This would be like the tens type machines you see people using for pain.  Of course the "tens" types machines you will see in a Domina's dungeon are a bit more advanced and can end up costing us about a grand.  For the extra money we pay, we get more programs, more sensation, the ability to create our own programs, some of which are so complex and wonderful they have been able to produce hands free orgasms.  I personally have several Erostek devices, one with a remote control, one which I can control with the sound of My voice or the sound of My heels clicking on the floor, etc, and one insanely large and complex box that has hundreds of applications. I honestly don't think My life will be long enough to explore every possible thing in that box, which is probably why I bought it. I will of course see how well I can do ;)
With these machines, the Domina may have any number of ways to apply the electricity to you. There are gloves, one of My personal favorites, sticky pads, clamps and clips for torturous electrical CBT and the like, and some very interesting insertables.  Insertables are amazing and I love them. There is nothing like a poor slave tied up and controlling severe fucking sensations that are happening to him, while he is quivering and completely going nuts, and I am calmly playing with My little device.

One kind plays along the skin...
MOST applications of the violet wand are of this style. They can be little sparkly sensual licking feelings or zaps.  One can create the sensation of being sliced with razor, but leave no mark.  In My dungeon there are zapper devices built just for kinky play. There are also a couple of violet wands, originally used for pseudo- medical purposes but now mostly used by kinksters as well. One of these has a contact wand, which electrifies the subject so anything that touches them shocks them. This is a wonderful way to play with multiple people, or create predicaments. All kinds of people, kinky or not, have tried the violet wand at My hand for simple exploration and found they absolutely loved the feelings.  Some have found them quite addictive and I have to tell them to move on so I can let other people try it!

Regarding safety:
I personally prefer to not engage in electrical play with people who have heart issues or pacemakers. Some people like to advise to never play with electricity above the waist.  These people are doing a great disservice to those Nipple Torture aficionados.  Early on in My domination career I followed this rule, but now I find the violet wand is very safe above the waist, along with some forms of Estim that obviously don't go from nipple to nipple.  I never do anything involving the head, expect give a little shock to the lips or earlobe once in awhile for fun.

Thursday, October 22, 2015

The bdsm friend zone

Its interesting and disheartening to see that bdsm culture has pretty much full absorbed the inconvenient and obsolete useless notions of romantic love that are prevalent in vanilla culture.
Throughout the bdsm world there are men and women looking for their bdsm soulmate.
Ah this magical person... they will be physically attractive to you, by your standards, which are often not even related to your own level of physical attractiveness.  For instance, obese men in their 50s who hope to be slave to young fit woman who watches what she eats and goes to gym to keep that ass up, yet have no intention of ever working out themselves.  She will apparently drink shitty beer with you and eat big greasy meals at TGI Friday's but have great skin and the body of a Goddess through some miracle. She will have her own collection of fetish wear but not mind the fact that you wear cargo pants, sneakers, and xxl t-shirts to fetish parties. After all, who doesn't get turned on by overweight middle aged men in cargo pants?
She will fulfill a list of requirements you have emotionally, in life goals, in demeanor, in hobbies, in attitude.
They will also fulfill a list of requirements you have kink wise... for instance, they will like heavy bondage, CBT, or spanking or service.  They will even approach these things the WAY you want... slutty, classy, playful, humiliating.  They will be the yin to your yang... sub to your dom or vice versa.  Oh, you are willing to try a couple new things, but you have your list and some real dealbreakers.
AND THE MOST IMPORTANT... they will want you, and like you for you, and want to play with you just because.

The play never happens.

What actually happens 99.99999 % of the time is you either never find this person, or you find something close, and they are not actually interested in you.

The entire time, you are surrounded by people you could play with but you have placed them in the BDSM friendzone.  They only fulfilled 80 percent of your list, and for some reason, (looks, personality, lack of chemistry) you're not playing with them.
I have watched this even in gay leather culture at this point, the bullshit straight society's ideas polluting what we should be having... which is a GOOD FUCKING TIME.

Loosen up and remember this was supposed to be PLAY.
Get the stick out of your ass that society put there and have some fun.  You are only hurting yourself... when there are perfectly good candidates out there to hurt you instead ;)

Put a blindfold on and forget about looks.
Buy that lady some fetish wear or toys!
Buy yourself some fucking fetish wear.... women are visually stimulated too!
Go work out if you want a buff chick.
If you want something way above your level, don't dismiss the idea of giving something in return for Her time.

Friday, October 9, 2015

I am an experienced, very beautiful female supremacist. I am also a lifestyle Dominatrix who lives the female domination lifestyle outside of professional sessions. A Mistress and Dominatrix and Goddess.. I am all of these. My clothing style is that of elegance mixed with strong fetish overtones.  I am a sadist but I am also realistic and respect all limits. Your desire to be dominated is matched and nearly always exceeded my overwhelming need to dominate and control. I do not play at domination, I do not go home to a vanilla environment afterwards;  femdom is completely natural.

I have the ability to fulfill your fantasies and make them come true. I will make you want me more than anything you have experienced before.  My appearance can stop your heart dead and you will yearn to crawl at my feet and suffer any degradation just to please your Goddess. My beauty and dominance will leave you in complete awe, helpless to resist and desperate. My intelligence and style will leave you in no doubt that I am completely superior to you in every way. One visit to me and you will know your destiny.

No one else compares.. I am a ruthless, superior woman, a Dominatrix and Mistress in every meaning.

Sunday, October 4, 2015

Appointments in Cincinnati start next weekend.
Emails will be answered eventually, Resending your request for My time is welcome and totally appropriate.

Thank you to the submissive who bought Me this gorgeous new latex dress.  It makes Me feel wonderful!