Friday, July 29, 2016

Regarding Appointments

When a Domina has been offering Her time to submissives and developed a reputation that precedes Her... you can bet all of Her email boxes are filled with requests for Her time.
How can you stand out among the rest?  This is a primer for anyone looking to find themselves at the feet of a busy and in-demand Mistress.

  1. Be clear and brief.  State your name, city, experience, interests, length of session you seek, dates possible for a session.  If you can't even request a date or time, I often assume you are just a wanker from Nigeria enjoying his computer.
  2. Do not request any illegal services or anything inappropriate. You are simply requesting to be dominated by Me, the way I please, within what you can offer, within your limits, discretion and safety.  I don't offer any services, of any kind.  You are contacting Me for a training opportunity. You can offer whatever you would be willing to try, but in the end your service and submission will define you.
  3. Vet yourself- If I have your real name, clear employment, linked in or facebook profile, references from a respected Mistress, etc... I am way more apt to book with you and take you seriously.  My face and My reputation are right here in front of you.  If you are not able to make Me feel safe seeing you, I walk away.  I NEVER violate this trust for any reason... one of the reasons I have a stellar reputation.  If you can't trust Me, I doubt you can trust Me tied up in My dungeon either, so I'm not interested.
  4. Send a deposit or gift- If I receive a gift from a submissive I always remember. When they email Me I take notice and write them back.  A physical representation of your devotion goes a long way with Me.
  5. Arrange a Niteflirt phone call if you are afraid or have cold feet.  I am available to talk on Monday and Tuesday evenings with notice.  We can discuss your fetishes or My training practices.  I will not send endless emails for you... I have written this blog for over 5 years now and you will find a wealth of information about serving Me right here.
  6. If you want to be seen in a more "personal" light, offer to make My life better. Offer to take Me out to get My nails done, take Me for a coffee and shopping trip, offer to bring Me coffee between these hours and these hours. 

I am actually a FemDom lifestyler.  I enjoy submissive men serving Me and it feeds the Inner Goddess that you want to enjoy.  I am inspired by submission.  Though you may not be well versed with women like Me, luckily I always train men to be better at serving Me and to learn My non-traditional ways.  Pay attention to My instruction and you may find yourself greatly rewarded.