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Monday, May 22, 2017

Evening of Goddess Adoration and Worship

Slave Application

This is an application for all those who wish to serve in the "s" role at Mistress Devlynn DeSade's High protocol Goddess party on June 10th.

Before you take the time to fill this out, make sure you are available on that date from 7pm to possibly 1am at the latest.

As a slave, you still must offer consent for play. your limits and safety WILL be respected. However I have a few requirements: you will be required to provide and wear MY preferred attire. This is somewhat negotiable and easy- but important because as a slave it is your goal to add to the evening and impress the Goddesses. you must be at My dungeon at 7:15 promptly. you must learn the basic high protocol positions and basic slave etiquette from Me at that time, get outfitted, etc. you may be caged or otherwise restrained or made to wait in the dungeon for use. OTHER than these requirements you are allowed a great deal of leeway. BE SURE to be open about your fantasies- they may line up in some way for Me to make something fabulous happen.


Your Name:
Why do you want to serve at this Goddess Party?
What is your experience with BDSM?
*Have you been to other BDSM events, if so mention them:

*Can you provide a reference within the community?

What is your opinion of Femdom lifestyle?
What do you consider your place or most comfortable role in the BDSM/fetish lifestyle?
What type of kinky activities would you possibly be comfortable exploring? (check any that apply, please distinctly mark with several x's your favorites.)
Butler service
CB Bondage
Clamps and Clips
Dildo Training
Dildo Worship
Full Transformation
Hair Pulling
House of Gord style bondage and use
Mother/Daughter Roleplay
Mother/Son Roleplay
Nipple Play
Nipple Torture
Partial Bondage
Partial Transformation
Pet Play
Physical Humiliation
Predicament Bondage
Prisoner Roleplay
Saline Infusion
Sex Change (Simulated, of course)
Sissy Maid Training
Slut Training
Symbolic Bondage
Teacher/Student Roleplay
Vaccum Beds
Verbal Humiliation (mild)
Verbal Humiliation (Severe)
Water Sports
*Special skills of Note: (Impress Me!)

Health Issues We should know about:
Additional comments/ fantasies/ serving requirements (i.e. already owned, significant other rules)

Monday, May 15, 2017

Safety in BDSM and Femdom

For those new to Femdom, from one is not so new to Femdom, the possibilities of injury and other problems should always be considered. While fantasies can be enticing, it is the place of the professional practitioner of such fantasies to make sure the submissive is safe at all times, even while he may enjoy the fright of danger.

Nerve Injuries- 

Rope bondage and even saran bondage can cause nerve damage.  Careful application, and communication between the submissive and the dominant can help prevent the dreaded "wrist drop" which can last anywhere from a few days to a month.  When nerves are damaged, they heal on their own time schedule, and there is nothing that can be done to speed up this process. If you feel any tingling during bondage, or if you know you have any existing nerve damage, as this can be compounded, let your Domina know!

Urethral Sounding- 

Urethral sounding is super fun and sensual but should be done by a trained professional and with sterile equipment.  In My dungeon I use silicon or steel sounds which are autoclave sterilized, just as at the Doctor's office.  I was warned My first year of Domination of the perils of sounding, and was trained by a Nurse and Dominatrix to do it safely.  You do NOT want to risk any bacterial infection or injury to your urethra.  So, with Sounding... Sterility, safety, and training... and silicon just to be sure!

Passing Out-

Passing out is an interesting phenomena, because it happens AFTER the person starts to calm down from a fright.  I have had several people pass out in My dungeon over the years.  A few occasions were like this:                                                                      

  • A submissive was worshipping My feet and legs and was overwhelmed by the fantasy. We laid him down and he had juice and a cool towel until he felt better, After a little while, we were actually able to continue the session.
  • A submissive was tied in ropes to the cross, when I did fireplay he passed out from fright. I held him, and carefully cut him out of the ropes until he was able to sit on the floor, once again with a sugary drink, cool towel and some time.
  • A submissive asked Me for CBT at a party. I was in leathers and thigh boots, and tied him to the cross at the party. Once I started lightly caressing his skin, just to make the connections to play further, he passed out, from the whole excitement of the scene.  He also vomited when he passed out, this happens, along with other possible bodily fluid emissions.  Other party goers immediately stepped in to help Me clean up and safely pull him down, and ... 

YOU GUESSED IT....The prescription for a pass-out is kindness, warmth, forgiveness, (because they feel very flustered and often disappointed in themselves) and sugary water, and cold towel.

Sub Drop-

AFTER a scene the endorphins go back down. Many subs are used to this and know what's going on. Basically, you just did a coke binge with Me and now you need to replenish all your systems, and let yourself bask in the afterglow.  Symptoms are similar, may include but aren't limited to: sadness, less energy, feelings of shame or worthlessness, a impulse to convert to Christianity and give up on BDSM.  I urge you to not act on such feelings, while in the moment, as you will be apologizing to Me and asking for another session in a year, but now you will feel like an ass for it.

Instead, EAT well, nourish yourself, accept yourself, enjoy other brain soothing things like music, films, exercise, pamper your body, etc.  Feel free to email Me with any concerns or questions about your service or session.

Drug Tests- 

This one I recently thought about, but have little experience regarding.  From now on, regarding golden showers, I wouldn't recommend ingesting if you are drug tested, unless you know your Mistress is Drug Free.  I smoke regularly and love allowing submissives to enjoy My toilet training regimen, but I would hate for anyone to fail a drug test for the pleasure.  If you are drug tested and love golden showers, maybe you should ask your Mistress about Her habits just to be sure you will remain drug free even after your fantasies are realized!


Friday, May 12, 2017

A Lesson In Manners

Hello my name is Alex,

I think I’m just your typical college student. I take my courses seriously and have excellent grades. But on the weekends I often need to let loose. But apparently on some occasions I have let myself get a little too “relaxed”.  I have been told by several of my friends that I need to be more considerate of others, particularly when I’m drinking. They say I can be a little rude and even sometimes arrogant and sometimes even mean. I typically would listen to the “constructive criticism”. But truthfully in general I have ignored their advice.  I mean, when I’m out on the weekends I need to blow off a little steam. If I hurt someone’s feelings or seem a little rude I may apologize if I’m feeling in a good mood. I may even buy them a drink and then consider the matter settled.  Little did I know that one day soon I would learn a lesson in manners!

It happened last Friday night. Some school friends told me of a Goth Night at a local club and invited me to go with them, funny; one even cautioned me to check my rude behavior at the door. I just laughed off the comment. Having never been to something like this before they told me just to wear something dark and be friendly. Of course, I’m a very friendly guy, right? Well, as it turned out, maybe not so much. We arrived, showed our ids’ paid the cover and moved into the party. Of course I headed straight for the bar. It had been a LONG week and I needed a beer buzz and FAST! It was somewhat dark inside but quickly I was able to pick out the bar. It was super busy even with two bartenders behind the counter. There were two lines and it seemed to be taking forever to get served and I was thirsty! I then noticed that the bar tender attending the line beside mine was just now returning from the cash register and was ready to take someone’s order. However, the two ladies at the front of that line were at that moment facing away from the bar and seemed to be texting with someone. Well, I was ready to order. So, naturally, I jumped to that line and ordered a beer. About that time I heard a lovely but stern voice from behind, “Excuse me WE were in line and were next!” Turning on my accuser I came face to face with one of the lovely ladies.

She had absolutely mesmerizing eyes but they had locked onto my eyes with an unflinching and intense and hostile glare. For the first time in my life I was at a loss for words. It was as if I had swallowed ice water. My knees were tingling; I was literally frozen with fear. This lovely but terrifying woman was dressed in a shiny smooth, sexy and form fitting latex dress. She had straight, silky shoulder length blond hair and a knockout body to go with her stunningly beautiful although quite angry looking face. Her friend had reddish brown hair and also possessed an intense and somewhat deadly beauty. She wore a button down black shirt with white stripes which gorgeously accentuated her lovely breasts. Beneath that she had a sexy black miniskirt with garters and matching black fishnet stockings and of course black stiletto heels!  Despite my fear I could feel myself becoming hard.  The one before me snapped me out of my trance, “Leave your money and tip at the bar. You’re coming with us.” I started to reply with a protest but suddenly her right hand flipped out from her side as fast as a snake whipping just her fingertips into my balls!  “Ummphhhh” An incapacitating nerve jolt shot from my balls, deep into my stomach and down through my thighs to my knees. Suddenly all ability to resist was gone. “Not another word, you’re coming with us. You need to be taught a lesson in manners!”

And with that they each took a hand and proceeded walking with me in tow away from the bar.  As we walked we passed what must have been their table because we stopped beside it and I noticed that the dark haired goddess rummaged beneath the table and found and picked up what appeared to be two long rods and two large wooden paddles! What was happening! I must have started dragging my feet a little for the one, I’d soon learn to be Mistress Devlynn, spoke, saying, “Do I need to encourage you to keep up with us again?” Fearing a repeat strike to my balls I Very quickly I responded “NO!”  That resulted in my first lesson of the evening, “From now on you will refer to each of us as Ma’am and will answer all questions with Yes or No Ma’am! Is that understood!!?” I corrected my response. “Yes Ma’am!” With that they continued pulling me until we reached the ladies room! Before I could say a word the other spoke, I would learn that her title was Mistress Gemini. “Don’t say a word, just follow us.” And with that I found myself in the ladies restroom.  Mistress Devlynn spoke, to the few ladies inside, “Excuse us ladies, we won’t be long and THIS one will soon be totally engaged with us, I assure you. You may watch if you wish. You may enjoy the show!” Without wasting any time, they got right down to business, Mistress Gemini commanded, “drop to your hands and knees boy!” Instantly I started to comply much out of fear for my poor balls. “STOP!” Mistress Devlynn spoke. You did not say “Yes Ma’am! That will cost you! We were going to be nice, but not now. Drop your pants down to your knees then get down on the floor”.

I looked at the floor; I could feel the stickiness of it pulling slightly at the soles of my shoes. It was filthy! I thought only men’s bathroom floors would be like this. My hesitating got me into more trouble, “I said get on the floor NOW! But first drop your underwear down to your knees as well! You REALLY need some manners beaten into you!”  My fear overcame my revulsion of the floor; quickly I unbuttoned, unzipped and pulled my pants down to my knees, where they continued to fall until completely around my ankles. I looked back into the eyes of my tormentor. “Now your underwear!” the tone of her voice caused me to immediately comply. I then fell to my hands and knees. Mistress Gemini commanded, “Get your face to the floor and spread your knees boy!”

I did as ordered trying to ignore the foul stench of the floor. I was now extremely self conscious. Dirty or not this was a public restroom, and a ladies room at that! Mistress Devlynn commented, “Normally I like to give a warm up, but I want to get back out to the party and this one does not deserve ANY kindness what so ever. So would you like the honors of going first Mistress Gemini?”

“Why yes, thank you it would be my pleasure. I think I’ll start with one of the paddles! You better grit your teeth and keep quite boy, if you scream I’m going to stuff your mouth with toilet paper!” Afraid not to reply, “Yes Ma’am, I’ll do my best!”

“Very well, close your eyes and prepare yourself!” The seconds seemed to stretch on forever and then,…… “CRACK!!!!!!!!!” OH MY GOD!!!! It BURNED! Despite my best effort I screamed, “Ahhhh!!!!”
I said be quite boy! “CRACK!!!!!!” I did a little better this time but I noticed that already my eyes were filling with tears!” “CRACK!!! Owwww….. Gritting my teeth as hard as I could I did manage to keep quite this time. Mistress Gemini spoke to Mistress Devlynn, “Would you like a turn?” “Thank you, I would indeed…Ohhh look how red and swollen his bottom is already! I think I’ll add a few stripes to it with my cane. Get ready boy!” My knees were shaking now and I noticed more than a little sore from the hardness of the disgusting floor. I closed my eyes so I wouldn’t have to look at it then it happened……
“VVVWWWAP!!!!!” At first it was just the terrifying sound that got my attention, but within milliseconds I forgot entirely about the sound and the look, smell and feel of the floor! The ripping, burning STING was like nothing I had ever experienced in my LIFE!” I howled! “OWWWWHHHH!!!!”  and flopped flat on my stomach grabbing my poor inflamed and slashed butt! Oh how it HURT!!!!!
I squeezed and pinched and squeezed my cheeks in a futile attempt to stop the unimaginable sting! I was rocking from side to side and squeezing totally oblivious to anything else! Mistress Devlynn spoke, “Get back up boy NOW!!!!” Weakly I replied through sobs, “Yyyess Mmma’am.”

I pushed myself back up and as I was catching my breath I noticed, that despite the pain and the humiliation and the fact that this was the first time I had EVER been spanked or caned, I was becoming aroused! At first it seemed a little odd but then my reflections were stopped by one of my gorgeous captors, “Look, the little pervert is enjoying this, aren’t you boy! I guess these next four strokes will need to be even harder! Brace yourself boy and this time you better NOT fall down!” My knees were shaking as well as my arms, but I could feel that not only was I now quite hard but I was adding my own dripping mess to the floor! Ohhh, disgusting I thought to myself. Quickly I dismissed thoughts of what the pervasive stickiness all over the floor could be from. Then….in rapid succession….., “VWAPPPP!!!!..... VWAPPPP!!!!..... VWAPPPP!!!!..... VWAPPPP!!!!.....

OH MY GOD!!!! I was shaking and sobbing now. “Owwww, Owwww, Owwww….” My butt was absolutely in FLAMES! Mistress Devlynn spoke, “Mistress Gemini, you haven’t used your cane yet, would you like a few strokes before I finish our boy with MY paddling?” “Yes Mistress Devlynn, I would like that very much, thank you.” Ohhh, would it ever end!!? I still felt strangely aroused but I noticed my erection had diminished quite a bit after that intense caning. Blinking my eyes I noticed that my tears were dripping incessantly now. I closed my eyes. I could sense Mistress Gemini taking position behind me. Then, vwooshhhhh….vwooosh!!! VWOOOOOSHHHH!!!! I flinched, but she was apparently just testing out the feel of the cane, AND scaring the heck out of her victim ME. She spoke, “Get ready boy….I’m giving you ten and you better hold still for them!” I held on hoping I could stand it and it happened……
VWWAAPPPP!!!!!!......... VWWAAPPPP!!!!!!......... VWWAAPPPP!!!!!!......... VWWAAPPPP!!!!!!......... VWWAAPPPP!!!!!!......... VWWAAPPPP!!!!!!.........VWWAAPPPP!!!!!!......... VWWAAPPPP!!!!!!.........
VWWAAPPPP!!!!!!......... VWWAAPPPP!!!!!!.........
Ohhhhh!!!!!!! I was shaking and crying!!!! I noticed that I even peed a little!!!! Oh it BURNED so BAD!!!!
I lost it, “Please I’m sorry!!!! I’ve learned my lesson…Please stop Ma’am????”
“Oh…..I’m done boy… But Mistress Devlynn still has to paddle you…..” “Yes, I still have to give you five licks with my paddle, but you’ve done surprisingly well.  Maybe you have some worth after all boy…..” Prove it to me boy, take these last five licks and I and Mistress Gemini will give you our cards. That way if you ever feel the need for some more training in good behavior you can contact us and arrange a session. So, let’s get on with it, face to the floor, ass in the air and knees spread wide……that’s a good boy….now hold still and it will all be over soon………
“CRACK!!!!!!! CRACK!!!!!! CRACK!!!!! CRACK!!!!! CRACK!!!!!!”
Owwww!!!!!  OWWWW!!!!! I fell back to the floor sobbing after the last hands immediately clasping my injured behind squeezing and rubbing…… Oh I was in SO MUCH PAIN!!!!

Mistress Devlynn giggled. “Well, I do believe you’ve learned your lesson boy. You might want to pull your pants back on before you go back for your beer. Oh and here’s our cards, with that she tossed their business cards to the floor beside me with a final word. “Fill out our on line applications, I feel you do have potential, with a few visits to either of us we just might make a proper, well behaved male out of you.  God knows the world is in short supply of those.”

It has been a week now. Oh, my butt still bears the markings! And have I EVER learned my lesson!
But, just last night I filled out their applications. A little booster never hurt.
Well……that expression may be wrong in this case!


Thursday, May 11, 2017

Mistress Gemini Visits Cincinnati this weekend ONLY!


MISTRESS GEMINI visits Cincinnati this weekend only. 

She will be available for limited appointments only, but We do wish to extend the invitation to select respectful submissives of Double Domination Sessions and Training in Service.
Mistress Gemini is a drop dead gorgeous pinup whether in Leather or Lingerie.  If you have never seen Her legacy of Femdom Erotica, you are missing out.  To apply to serve Mistress Gemini you must act quickly HERE.  If you have references from Me, all the better for you, I love to share My well trained boys and girls.

Playing With My New Toy, on a String

Monday, May 8, 2017

How Not to Fuck Up

Well, it is springtime in Cincinnati, and many people want to know how to end up in the sadistic, evil clutches of a Dominant Lady.
Whether professional or Lifestyle, here is My guide on "How not fuck up" 
If you have fucked up, you may want to see My guide, "Oh Damn you fucked it up..."


Be forthcoming and honest with information, such as discretion needs, availability, verification information such as your occupation, facebook or linkedin.

Be clear about when you wish to book and for how long.

Send your deposit, or a gift for the Dungeon to keep it going.

Do Not send MORE emails than necessary, this can be a red flag!  

Do not send photos of your cock, etc.  Feel free to send photos of face, with photo ID, to make a Mistress feel safe seeing you.  

Booking is mostly done via EMAIL and My application. Don't try to get a session on social media, at best it won't work, at worst you will get blocked and not get to enjoy all My free photos and videos.

If you cannot see Me for a session right away, but want to make an impression or be in My good graces, offer your schedule of availability, skills, uses, budget for serving Me monthly, or you can simply send a gift or gift card from My wishlist, as do many other slaves who are either too far away or too married right now to serve.

Respect MY boundaries... which include My phone number, My privacy, My time, etc.


Oh shit, what did you do to yourself?  You looked at My photos, read My blog, and then made some terrible mistake.  
Mistakes that make a Mistress feel unsafe or disrespected can sometimes be unforgivable. Over the years I exiled slaves for LIFE from My dungeon for: showing up unannounced to the dungeon, phone calls at inappropriate times, violation of My privacy.  
Other mistakes, such as way too many emails that make Me feel you are sketchy, asking for illegal services, etc, also happen.
I would like to continue offering a safe and discreet place for the submissives of Cincinnati to explore this side of themselves with a skilled and experienced guide.  Each person that comes into this process and then fucks up, leads Me to be further and further reclusive, seeing only the slaves I have come to know and trust at this point, and rejecting most new applicants. I wish this wasn't the case, but if you play with fire and get burned you quit being interested in fire.  And you see, I already have great slaves, a panini press slave, a rice cooker slave, a toaster oven slave... it's going to take a lot of work from Me to turn your fire into a damn fine cooking element.
For this reason only the best and most compatible, professional, forthcoming, honest, appropriate and intelligent applicants can be chosen.
If you feel that IS YOU but for some reason you made an honest SMALL mistake, and grieve that mistake greatly, you may email a new application with your express apology and some ideas of how you propose to make it up to Me.  
Buying a gift from My wishlist or a giftcard for Lingerie or Latex (Secrets in Lace, Westward Bound) could be a good way to show Me you appreciate the work I have put into making a dungeon and a Femdom scene in Cincinnati, a very conservative city.  Perhaps you could go get something for Me I need for the dungeon locally, like a piece furniture, Goddess party or cleaning supplies. 
It is easy to look at what is here as a dream and fantasy, but I have made it a reality for those who make themselves worth of entering. This has been no small feat, and the DeSade Academy is entering its 7th year as a sanctuary for Femdom!!!