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Thursday, May 31, 2018

Myths about Femdom

All Femdoms want to bang you in the butt-

Of course some do, but every Femdomme has her own ideas about how to enjoy your body.  She might enjoy needles. Some enjoy simple tie and teasing.  Don't judge a book by the cover.

Femdom means doing whatever the fuck I want-

No, what you are describing is narcissistic personality disorder with a touch of abusive behavior.  Femdom is like any relationship, based on two people freely choosing to engage.  A happy slave is a kept slave, and unhealthy and abusive behavior is actually unhealthy for both parties involved.  If you are trying to "do femdom" but you are just doing this, you are headed for a crash and terrible awakening.  Females lead and males follow, "Femdom" is not a get out of jail free card.
REAL BLACKMAIL is not okay.  Physical violence without consent is not okay. 

She shows her tits, she's not a femdom- 

You have no idea how hard any woman worked to get in the body she has. I myself work very hard and feel I have the right to show what I like,  as I will only exist in this form once and I won't hide it away for your false morality or obsolete christian values.  We mostly are a modest bunch but you don't get to police us with silliness.  

If I act bad, she will beat me good-

If you act bad, I will never meet you, never greet you, and never beat you.  Poor thing.

Femdom is emasculating- 

Femdom is a natural expression of a thousand year old inherently male biological response.  Sir Lancelot- what could be emasculating about serving his Queen?  Only an actually cowardly man, insecure in his own feelings, cannot embrace this.

Pro- dommes are just in it for the money-

We maintain a safe space, we host events, we buy expensive top of the line equipment for you to experience.  This is where the money goes.  Not on a fur lined bed for us to roll around in, unfortunately.  Now imagine you are a slave you pays for a monthly session... you are helping to pay rent, bills, and basics to simply keep the dungeon running.  I can tell you care and want the dungeon to keep existing.  Now imagine you are submissive who only needs a session once or twice a year... your session helps keep the dungeon running, but because you aren't dependable it is hard to tell where any allegiance or loyalty is... I find it strange when people pop in randomly but have the nerve to talk about My dungeon or serving Me in a real capacity when there is no loyalty. A good way to contribute monthly in a nominal way anyone can afford is by joining My onlyfans.com/devlynndesade  - In this way you can show you want the dungeon to be there when you do need it even if you can't afford monthly sessions.